| Dark_Lord_2008 said: https://www.quora.com/Why-dont-guys-pursue-women-anymore Declining opportunity: Given the fact that marriage is almost always the man’s decision, men who seem like marriage material are rarely single after 30; they have tied the knot and have a kid or two. Boys will be boys: Men like to have fun, women do as well but men don’t have a biological clock, a lot (I would say most) women do. It’s not fair but life isn't fair. The shrinking world and the western women: In today's world its to easier to go to another country and find a woman that fits you versus changing yourself to fit a modern type woman in your neighbourhood. Women in general don’t have this option as most of the men of the world are a lot more traditional than western men (and that is putting it politely). The Screw it Phenomena: Finally a lot of guys just don’t want to bother. I was raised to hold a chair, rise when a woman comes to the table, open doors for women, walk on the outside, etc. When I see headlines like this, I just say screw this. Because we’ve simply given up. But don’t get me wrong, we still pursue because we’re still checking them out and try to connect with them like normal human beings. After all, it’s human nature. But when it comes to actually asking a girl out, you can tell from your own experience whether this girl is really worth it or not. So the real question is, why are guys afraid of approaching women? It’s because most young women are extremely immature, and this is not my personal opinion or bias, it’s fact. I’ve been rejected a lot during my single years and it still happens from time to time so most guys, including me, stopped doing it so we could save ourselves the humiliation and awkwardness. |
Firstly I will address the extremely immature. How are they? If anything men are more immature at the same age. The guys writing these stupid comments are they trying to date underage girls or something?
Secondly if you going to quote something copy the whole point
It’s because most young women are extremely immature, and this is not my personal opinion or bias, it’s fact. I’ve been rejected a lot during my single years and it still happens from time to time so most guys, including me, stopped doing it so we could save ourselves the humiliation and awkwardness. Girls get rejected too but it’s not nearly as degrading and terrible as what happens to guys when they get shut down ( sometimes it can just feel that way because of the sudden rush of negative emotion and rejection that comes with it). It’s too abrupt and out of nowhere so at one point you’ll start to expect it without doing really anything. At one point, you’ll start noticing that everything you do is a red flag or that anything is short of a flaw so you figure, what’s the point in trying anymore?
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If girls get rejected too why would it be any different for them then what he describes be true for him?
This is the dumbest thing I have read. If anything it be worst for a woman because they are already body conscience as they are trying to meet expectations set by models in magazines and porn site.
