I know somewhere along the lines it;s going to be some of the words some of us end up going with but the problem with that is I also take issue with words others use (like exclusive wars and the wording in those threads makes some come off as smug to me) and yet I am one of the few who will get a lecture on wording (as you have had as well) while the other side simply doesn't and goes on their merry way, whenever I object to their manner/way I simply get called some elitist prick or smug cunt (seriously that TB thread got super ugly real fast) and yet I haven't called or implied anyone else is any of those insults at all.
Mankind, in its arrogance and self-delusion, must believe they are the mirrors to God in both their image and their power. If something shatters that mirror, then it must be totally destroyed.