I can't believe no one mentioned this yet...
It's kind of an older game, but still better than many out right now
Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion.
Extremely addicting game and it is time consuming Lol
The 360 version has downloadable content while the PS3 is less loading and better graphics I think. Still an awesome experience on both systems tho!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyLhpUPNPIs
360 IS OPERATIONAL AFTER 37 DAYS!