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Is marriage a right to all citizens?

Yes, screw the Constituti... 29 46.03%
 
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In my country marriage ac... 4 6.35%
 
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Kasz216 said:

Both Yes and No.

Marriage isn't a right, however it does become a right the moment government decides to use it as the method to delvier benefits to a committed pair of individuals or uses it to establish familial rights.

As it is now, i'd say marriage is a right in the US.

If the US dropped all tax breaks, and legal benefits for married spouses, I would then say it is NOT a right.

Easy solution... change government marriage to civil unions... for everyone.

Nope.

Marriages receive additional benefits because they are responsible for education and upbringing of future generations.

 

If lack of gay marriages is discrimination than so is existance of men/women only toilets.



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If some people can marry, then everyone should be able to marry.



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Zlejedi said:
Kasz216 said:

Both Yes and No.

Marriage isn't a right, however it does become a right the moment government decides to use it as the method to delvier benefits to a committed pair of individuals or uses it to establish familial rights.

As it is now, i'd say marriage is a right in the US.

If the US dropped all tax breaks, and legal benefits for married spouses, I would then say it is NOT a right.

Easy solution... change government marriage to civil unions... for everyone.

Nope.

Marriages receive additional benefits because they are responsible for education and upbringing of future generations.

 

If lack of gay marriages is discrimination than so is existance of men/women only toilets.


Bullshit.

I'm getting married in 4 years, when I get married, I will not have kids.  I will still get marriage benefits.

Gay couples who adopt, or who otherwise have kids (Having kids in a straight relationship, getting a divorce them living with a gay person) do not get marriage benefits.

If marriage benefits are for raising kids, then they should be stripped from married couples and instead be given to people... who have kids.

Which again, does include gay people.


and to follow your logic... I guess if lack of gay marriage isn't discrimination white and black only toliets aren't discrimination... right?

 

Edit: And to head off the "You could have kids!" arguement.  Nobody goes through infertility testing before they get there marriage benefits even though there are a number of men and women who can't have children.... and no woman loses her marriage benefits once she hits menopause.



i see two solutions to the issue ... either would be fine with me.

A) recognize that marriage is both a religious and civil institution. from the religious perspective each religion should be able to believe whatever they want. from the civil perceptive all of our citizens are given the right to be treated as equals. therefore write a law that guarantees religious institutes the ability to refuse to acknowledge or perform gay marriage if that is their wish but also guarantees gay couples to be recognized as marriage by the laws of the USA (or where ever you live)

B) recognize that marriage is fundamentally a religious institution not a civil institution. as such, all laws concerning marriage would be stricken from the books under separation of church and state.


the "civil union" bullshit as an alternative to marriage is complete crap. "separate but equal" was a terrible idea with respect to people of different race and it is a terrible idea with respect to homosexuality as well.



Joelcool7 said:
Viper1 said:
Marriage, a legally binding union between 2 people, is a right of everyone that shouldn't require legislation to regulate.

I don't see laws or national founding documentation making it a right to be able to walk and chew bubble gum at the same time. Some things should just be common sense.


If marriage was simply a Government institution or civil matter then I would agree its common sense. However it is a religious institution who's meaning actually had to be changed to accomodate gays, beastiality and object fetishers. It's pretty insaine to change the definition of a word, force that change on the religious groups who made the word and the institution. Its insaine that its even considered a right.

What about going naked down the street, shouldn't that be my right I mean I'm not hurting anyone and its my free will to wear what I want. That should be a right should it not. Thats common sense isn't it?

In this case changing the definition of a word and then imposing that change on everyone is not a right in my eyes or the Constitution's or rights bills.

Edit. the reason I wrote the poll the way I wrote it is due to people saying Marriage is a Constitutional and Bill of RIghts Right. THe Consitution does however protect religious groups the religious rights act (Canada) which states that people have the freedom to practice their religions free of persecution etc... So forcing Pastors to marry gay couples or animals or objects actually goes against the fundamental beliefs enshrined in the Canadian, American and Australian Constitutions.

As such if you vote that it is a right and that this right should be enforced you are essentially going against the Constitution and Bill of Rights, hence why I placed that in the poll.

I was tempted to reply to twisted arguments but knowing you I know it would lead nowhere so instead I'm going to say this:

Next year, I'm marrying a guy and there's nothing you can do about it!



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Kasz216 said:

Both Yes and No.

Marriage isn't a right, however it does become a right the moment government decides to use it as the method to delvier benefits to a committed pair of individuals or uses it to establish familial rights.

As it is now, i'd say marriage is a right in the US.

If the US dropped all tax breaks, and legal benefits for married spouses, I would then say it is NOT a right.

Easy solution... change government marriage to civil unions... for everyone.


Why even have civil unions?

This is a question I asked durring the Canadian "gay marriage" non-debate and no one could answer it.

In Canada (pretty much) all rights that a married couple have were given to couples living in common-law relationships in the 1990s. All the rights and responsibilities surrounding children are maintained regardless of your marital status, and if the government needs to give "Tax Breaks" to people who could have children that is an indication that tax rates are simply too high for everyone. About the only act that may happen when people get married that the government should care about is a legal name-change; which is hardly enough to justify any real involvement in marriage from the government.



HappySqurriel said:
Kasz216 said:

Both Yes and No.

Marriage isn't a right, however it does become a right the moment government decides to use it as the method to delvier benefits to a committed pair of individuals or uses it to establish familial rights.

As it is now, i'd say marriage is a right in the US.

If the US dropped all tax breaks, and legal benefits for married spouses, I would then say it is NOT a right.

Easy solution... change government marriage to civil unions... for everyone.


Why even have civil unions?

This is a question I asked durring the Canadian "gay marriage" non-debate and no one could answer it.

In Canada (pretty much) all rights that a married couple have were given to couples living in common-law relationships in the 1990s. All the rights and responsibilities surrounding children are maintained regardless of your marital status, and if the government needs to give "Tax Breaks" to people who could have children that is an indication that tax rates are simply too high for everyone. About the only act that may happen when people get married that the government should care about is a legal name-change; which is hardly enough to justify any real involvement in marriage from the government.

No real reason, marriage contributes nothing to a society without children.

Though people would bitch otherwise.

Though I'd get rid of all tax breaks, for everything.



Marriage is a construct of the church and should be treated as such.

It should have no bearing on what the government does. The government should recognize all co-habitation agreements between two consenting adults. Because of this, the government should only act as needed as an arbiter between two people's compact in case of annulment (e.g. divorce). Outside of that, the government should not be involved one iota. Church should be free to denounce homosexual marriage as it desires (since the church is the one to fashion the idea of marriage in the first place), but such statements should have no bearing on its legalities.



Back from the dead, I'm afraid.

Personally don't give a shit what any law document or any so called "god" says. If 2 people feel that should get married they can and should be able to.



sodom and Gomorrah is how god looks at it.

sodom and Gomorrah cause we are god like is how the Republicans look at it.

Dem's are mostly on the fence

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