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At what age does it become weird to be a virgin?

Under 18 5 3.91%
 
18-21 14 10.94%
 
22-26 47 36.72%
 
27-31 24 18.75%
 
32-36 7 5.47%
 
Over 36 31 24.22%
 
Total:128
sapphi_snake on 28 March 2011
chocoloco said:
sapphi_snake said:
chocoloco said:

I felt weird being a virgin at 16, but looking back I would say after 20 it is kind of weird unless you really are ugly or have anziety disorders to the extreme.    My friend who is 22 and a virgin and no girlfriend is often thought by people he might be gay, poor guy, but even  Iwonder myself considering he is hotshit . I mean in a non gay way. lol

Yeah, sute.

Hey, Just because we smack each others' asses in the gym after working out does not make us gay.

Thta will surely came back and bite you in the... ASS.



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sapphi_snake on 28 March 2011
flashpoint_1230 said:

And what's the problem with a bit of hedonism? Sex gives pleasure, pleasure is good.

Uhhhhh. Okay. A) There are a lot of things in the world that give pleasure, so don't even go there. If you want to go there, I'd love to see you try to defend drugs or smoking. (They're pleasurable activities for those who engage in them) and B) Going through life with the desire to please yourself is...odd. I highly doubt that people who sleep around genuinely care about the other person as much as they care about themselves. I doubt that they want to give pleasure to the other person; they only want it for themselves. Even if you cut my "keep your virginity for your spouse" bias out of it, the motive behind a lot of guys' idea of sex is not admirable.

STDs exist for the same reason that influenza exists. Because it's a convenient way for diseases to propagate. Also if you use a condom you aren't going to get a STD anyway.

I kind of get the feeling that you're coming from a perspective of 'God made STDs to punish fornication/adultery' which I'm going to have to disagree with on the grounds that I don't believe in God.

Okay, but if you're saying that sex is a normal way to explore your individuality, then there shouldn't be any negative side effects, emotional or physical, right? And I thought that a condom was supposed to stop you from having a baby or something. Like birth control.

3 things:

#1: there are people who get pleasure by giving pleasure.

#2: Everything can have negative side effects. They're not mandatory in any sotuation, and certainly not at all in the case of sex.

#3: Condoms are also the only method to protect yourself from STDs when you have sex.



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"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

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sapphi_snake on 28 March 2011
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've read today.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

flashpoint_1230 on 28 March 2011
sapphi_snake said:
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've red today.

Somehow I'm not exactly surprised.

Oh well.



sapphi_snake on 28 March 2011
flashpoint_1230 said:
sapphi_snake said:
flashpoint_1230 said:

Yes, but marriage isn't about completely ignoring the bad. Take the bad with the good, fine. But there's no possible way that you could ignore it. There's always that fear of "what if they're comparing me to past partners?" If either one of you has an experience where you can look back and know what sex is like, then wouldn't your mind automatically skip to that? You wouldn't be able to focus solely on the experience between you and your spouse. It's not fair to either of you.

 

lolita said:

 

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

 

Oh, thank goodness! Here I was thinking that I was weird!

That's the most ridiculous thing I've red today.

Somehow I'm not exactly surprised.

Oh well.

Don't worry, you'll wisen up. Even if you have to embarass yourself by freaking out when you see what a vagina looks like for the first time, knock up 1-2 girls and get herpes along the way.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

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Kamal on 28 March 2011

Was looking for the over 9000 option.... Shit wrong thread.



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Games4Fun on 28 March 2011
chocoloco said:
Games4Fun said:
chocoloco said:
lolita said:

These. I admire people who chose to wait instead of having meaningless sex.

I really want to facepalm at the guys who think they need to do it before 20 otherwise it's weird. Really? Dudes, that doesn't make you attractive... AT ALL. I'm a women and I know what I like and really dislike. If a guy slept around or had sex just cause he thinks it's cool, to me it is quite repulsive, doesn't show much intelligence (both mental and emotional), lack of maturity and it doesn't seem very respectful. Not sure I would want to be around that guy, ever.

Come on lolita are you even older than 20 or are you just being a hypocrite? Your a married woman and I doubt your a virgin. I am just saying it is weird, but not wrong. Something that can easliy be changed at anytime. I am a psy major and their is no real definition of emotional or mental intelligence in fact it is quite relative.

Read it again and you will see what she is actually saying. Hint, it has less to do with the actual age.

Whatever, your only a second hand source, but yes she is only stating her personnal opinion like was asked.


Just pointing out the "hypocrite" comment had no place or basis to even be used. By reading her own words its plain as day what she thinks and wanted to get across.



Play4Fun on 29 March 2011

 I am a virgin and damn proud of it!

 Also, well said Lolita.

I once told a guy that I wanted to keep my virginity until I found the partner I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. He responded by telling me that without sex, my relationships are shallow.

I mean...WTF...really?

I am 18 (soon to be 19) BTW.



Kirameo on 29 March 2011

I'll be 18 in 2 weeks and I'm still a virgin. I don't particularly care. I'm not proud of it nor ashamed.

Being a virgin is just a circumstance of life, and there's no merit in being or not a virgin. It's like taking pride in doing something like parachuting because you finally did it or taking pride in not doing it because you can hold your desires. As stated above, I don't care. I know I'll eventually have sex so that doesn't bother me.



 

MrBubbles on 29 March 2011

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