I would never hit my sister. But she was a complete jerk growing up too. She tried killing me a few times. She liked to smash me over the head with stuff. Once a brick, a combination lock and a 2 by 4. She too called the police on me while my mom was out she had gone to my neighbours and said I was attacking her.
Long story short I kicked her door in too. She liked to steal my stuff and lock her door so I couldn't get it back. I was a in shape 13 year old. Immature of course but I kicked the door so hard the hinges broke off and the door crashed down. Also my mom used to give me time outs and lock me in a room. One day I think she forgot me I yelled and tried to get someones attention but she was no where. So I kicked a hole in the door. I also punched two holes in the wall out of anger.
My sister too this day will scream if she doesn't get her way and she likes to shake her fists alot. She's 20 and she's still not fully grown up. However not living with her anymore we get along way better then we used too.
You'll grow up , she'll grow up and you two will probably get along better when neither of you live together.
P.S- it was just as immature for you to kick holes in her door, but having kicked down my own sisters door I understand. But in the end violence rarely solves anything. Also punching your dad could have gotten you arrested and done serious damage to your relationship.
When you grow older you'll realize that assualt is rarely ever the mature thing to do!