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Gay Marriage: Yes or No?

Yes 100 69.93%
 
No 31 21.68%
 
Don't Know 2 1.40%
 
No, but partnerships are fine 10 6.99%
 
Total:143

I voted yes, but I wonder, why would gay couples want to get married in the first place? It just seems like none of the traditions like the wedding dress (and most of the other ceremonial stuff), the rings, taking your partner's name, calling each other husband and wife and making babies together don't really apply to gays and lesbians.

Is it just about making the relationship official? Sorry if I sound completely ignorant or this has been said before in the thread.



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CatFangs806 said:
SciFiBoy said:
CatFangs806 said:
SciFiBoy said:
CatFangs806 said:
SciFiBoy said:
CatFangs806 said:
Nope. And also for the OP, why should they get benefits over those of us who are straight. Giving benefits to a certain group of people over something like this is never right. It's discrimination.

er, they wouldnt, they would simply be given the same rights we hetrosexuals currently get?

also, why do you think they shouldnt get the same rights?

I never said they wouldn't have the same rights as us. I was just saying that I don't support anything gay, and certainly not gay marriage. If they want to get married, I can't stop them. I just have religious reasons for saying so, and I know many members on here are athiests, but that's just my stance on the issue.

"why should they get benefits over those of us who are straight"

funny, to me, that is saying you think they wouldnt have the same rights...

I was thinking of more economic benefits that people get over others. People get welfare benefits, but a lot of the people who have it shouldn't as they just use it to be lazy and to leech off the rest of us. I'd be afraid that the government would give gays exceptional benefits, particularly economic ones, over heterosexuals.

you think gay people get prioritised by benefit offices?

based on what?

have you ANY evidence to support that claim?

I said I'd be afraid if they could or did get those benefits. For all I know, they don't. I just know that minority groups or different groups of people sometimes get discounts on their taxes and get other unfair advantages over the rest of us. At least that's what I've heard.

so basically you made it up based on hearsay then tried to use it to justify denying them a right that you have?

the point of welfare is to help people who need it, I agree it shouldnt be given to people just for being gay, I doubt theyre are any such welfare payments anyway though, so it seems a rather moot point.



I voted yes, because marriages predate religions, and marriages historically have been used for everything from peace treaties to selling goods (property and women) and everything between. Using marriages for love is actually a pretty recent concept, but everybody jumped on board, and gay people can love each other, so let's let 'em marry each other.



mrstickball said:
SciFiBoy said:
adriane23 said:
mrstickball said:
SciFiBoy said:
personally I think that state education is a good thing and that it should be a priority for the government, the government should endevaour to make state education as good as it can, so people get as much as is possible the same standard of education, obviously its never perfect, but if we can get anywhere close I think its good for society, I think its important that its run by the government so its accountable to the public.

Except when government education isn't accountable to good or even decent standards. Such as the case with many thousands of American schools.

Property tax and school population are big factors in the disparities between public schools.

build more schools in those areas, shockingly simple solution to the over population problem, and taxes should be progressive otherwise they are pretty pointless, if you need to, raise them to pay for the education system or cut budgets in other less important sectors, lets face it, theyre arent many things more important than education.

But most of the failing schools are also having the most money put into them to 'fix' them, despite no improvements in test scores.

Also, I would question if smaller class sizes invariably lead to better education, SciFiBoy. If you did not know, Utah has the worst student to teacher ratio in the US, and has the best test scores. In the case of many of the schools' budgets I just showed you, how in the world is more money going to change things when its painfully obvious that money doesn't help the problem?

well, something is wrong with the education system itself then, which means you need to identify what and then figure out how to fix that, it could be how people are taught or how the school is run?

also, thats some horrible graduation rates on there, something is cleraly VERY BADLY wrong with your education system, if not funding, then you desperatley need to figure out what and how to fix it.



Problem is, you advocated certain 'solutions'. Solutions that don't work.

They've been trying to fix the problems for decades now, throwing money at the problems. There are fixes out there, but they aren't easy ones, and are partially in opposition to your suggestions.



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yes. they should, we still have a long way to go, if we are still asking this question



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mrstickball said:
Problem is, you advocated certain 'solutions'. Solutions that don't work.

They've been trying to fix the problems for decades now, throwing money at the problems. There are fixes out there, but they aren't easy ones, and are partially in opposition to your suggestions.

thats kind of what I just posted, if funding isnt the issue, then what are the issue(s)?

if you think you have some solutions, then im willing to hear them, I wont neccessarily agree, but I am willing to hear you out.



KylieDog said:
No, marraige stems from the church and gays are not to be married in one. Civil partnership to legally recognise to the law is enough, if they want their own cerimony that is fine too but not a wedding.

I'm not anti gay at all, I'm not religious at all either, but I respect peoples religious beliefs and allowing gays to marry is effectively breaching past various religions laws, they do not have that right. They do have the right to have a legally recognised partnership though.

Marriage doesn't stem from the church and it doesn't need to be conducted in one, or approved by any.

Though I'm fully of the opinion that if a church doesn't support gay marriage, they are in their right not to allow such ceremonies to be held in it. But that's where it ends for the church's rights.

edit: I suppose one thing the Christian church especially can fight for is the "holy matrimony" label.



damkira said:
I am for:

gay marriage
abortion (I'm not pro-choice, I'm pro abortion.)
marijuana legalization
euthanasia
universal health care
separation of church and state

I am against:

the death penalty
the war in iraq
school vouchers

I agree with this statements.



SciFiBoy said:
mrstickball said:
Problem is, you advocated certain 'solutions'. Solutions that don't work.

They've been trying to fix the problems for decades now, throwing money at the problems. There are fixes out there, but they aren't easy ones, and are partially in opposition to your suggestions.

thats kind of what I just posted, if funding isnt the issue, then what are the issue(s)?

if you think you have some solutions, then im willing to hear them, I wont neccessarily agree, but I am willing to hear you out.

Edit: You know, i'm just going to really shorten this up from what i posted...


The large majority of increased spending goes to teachers compensation who make around 36 dollars an hour(without benefits) and whose salary is based soley on seniority and not ability.

Unlike private schools where they actually get paid less and can get fired... but get to teach without as much higher up bueracracy.

 

The problem with trying to fix this on a government level is... you can't really hire and fire people at will, you need to set up proficency testing and such.. and that's not always the best indicator... since honestly, sometimes good teachers can be stuck with a "bad" group of kids.   Every bad job a teacher did just to get students by also reflects on good teachers later on etc.   You can't give good teachers breaks, or give bad teachers with exceptional students trouble... because the union will get in the way.

Private schools don't have that worry.