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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

I am a literal manchild but I can go into a bar, you can point at any women, and I can talk them into bed within 24 hours without even using pick up art.



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curl-6 said:

Well, tonight's the night. In T Minus 6 hours I'll be heading out to my last singles night of my 20s.

Got a nice crisp but not too serious shirt and some neat jeans ready to go, gonna have some drinks to take the edge off the social anxiety, use deodorant/cologne/etc, shower and shave beforehand, all the standard stuff. Fingers crossed.

Wish you the best of luck! Don't mention that you hang out on video game forums in your free time, it's not a good topic for small talk.

WessleWoggle said:
I am a literal manchild but I can go into a bar, you can point at any women, and I can talk them into bed within 24 hours without even using pick up art.

wow you're a wizard.



Most bars are a huge sausage fest, lots of guys, not many women. Night clubs are more for people under 25, when you are older you look weird and awkward mixing with younger people. I do not drink much and I do not take drugs and I am not much of a fighter. I have learned that violence is not the answer to solve issues, it only makes things worse and can lead to trouble.

I am focused on fitness and I am obsessed about my weight and trying to remain under 80kg, I currently weigh 75kg, would like to get back down to 70kg so I can focus on cycling and running. I do not have the build to lift weights and I have made some mistakes at the gym and strained my neck, shoulder and back on rowing machine and doing too many shoulder presses. It is weird the fixed weight machines are variations of shoulder press that train the same muscles that lead to muscle imbalances.





@OP two questions before I go on. Are you ugly and have you had sex? Serious question.

Now funny you talk about men choosing to be single. I'm going into year 7 with my gf and I always tell her when she asks what would I do if she broke up with me and I say I'd stay single and enjoy life without the stress of a gf. I ask if you'd had sex because before I ever did I was a little awkward too with women. Didn't help I went to an all boys school and spent all my time on all boys sports teams. Very little social interaction. Plus my parents never acted romantic.

Anyway she asked what about sex and I told her the feeling of an orgasm is the same whether it's from a women or my hand.

Another thing I noticed. Whenever I was single and going to clubs trying to get a girl I'd fail or find it harder. But anytime I went out during relationships with previous girlfriends or my current one and I'm with the lads I find women are way more interested and I'm always laughing telling them, where were you when I was single. So what I take from that is girls are more interested in men who aren't chilled and are trying too hard to get them.



Dark_Lord_2008 said:
Most bars are a huge sausage fest, lots of guys, not many women. Night clubs are more for people under 25, when you are older you look weird and awkward mixing with younger people. I do not drink much and I do not take drugs and I am not much of a fighter. I have learned that violence is not the answer to solve issues, it only makes things worse and can lead to trouble.

I am focused on fitness and I am obsessed about my weight and trying to remain under 80kg, I currently weigh 75kg, would like to get back down to 70kg so I can focus on cycling and running. I do not have the build to lift weights and I have made some mistakes at the gym and strained my neck, shoulder and back on rowing machine and doing too many shoulder presses. It is weird the fixed weight machines are variations of shoulder press that train the same muscles that lead to muscle imbalances.



Depends where you go clubbing. I was at a stag party in krakow last year and Holy shit the place was full of fine polish, Ukrainian and woman of other nationality. I walked in with the group of lads and before I got to the dance floor 2 girls had grabbed me and were pushing me towards this other chick. It was like being back in the teenage discos back home. 



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curl-6 said:

Well, tonight's the night. In T Minus 6 hours I'll be heading out to my last singles night of my 20s.

Got a nice crisp but not too serious shirt and some neat jeans ready to go, gonna have some drinks to take the edge off the social anxiety, use deodorant/cologne/etc, shower and shave beforehand, all the standard stuff. Fingers crossed.

Apprently beards are in thing atm.

I got one, but my wife hates it lol.



 

 

WessleWoggle said:
I am a literal manchild but I can go into a bar, you can point at any women, and I can talk them into bed within 24 hours without even using pick up art.

Didn't you come out on the forum as a troll like yesterday? back to your old ways?



 

 

Cobretti2 said:
curl-6 said:

Well, tonight's the night. In T Minus 6 hours I'll be heading out to my last singles night of my 20s.

Got a nice crisp but not too serious shirt and some neat jeans ready to go, gonna have some drinks to take the edge off the social anxiety, use deodorant/cologne/etc, shower and shave beforehand, all the standard stuff. Fingers crossed.

Apprently beards are in thing atm.

I got one, but my wife hates it lol.

My wife loves it. Stay away from her!

 

Woops. I just realised she's my gf not my wife! 



I have been and tried therapy, seen psychologists and psychiatrists, been on medications for 20 years on/off and it did not change anything. It does not change the fact that I do not fit into social situations, feel like an outsider and avoiding social situations is the only way to make the fear go away.
Non-Autistic do not understand how hard life is with Autism, your advice only applies for people that do not have Autism.
Autism can not be cured and there is not much that can be done for us.

I sense/know that women do not want anything to do with me, without saying a word. I do not want to be rejected and boost random female's ego. Why waste time being rejected when you have no chance at all? I have the right to remain silent. 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 11 January 2019

Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I have been and tried therapy, seen psychologists and psychiatrists, been on medications for 20 years on/off and it did not change anything. It does not change the fact that I do not fit into social situations, feel like an outsider and avoiding social situations is the only way to make the fear go away.
Non-Autistic do not understand how hard life is with Autism, your advice only applies for people that do not have Autism.
Autism can not be cured and there is not much that can be done for us.

I sense/know that women do not want anything to do with me, without saying a word. I do not want to be rejected and boost random female's ego. Why waste time being rejected when you have no chance at all? I have the right to remain silent. 

I am pretty sure a couple people here have said they have some sort of autism and are trying or have managed. The problem is no one doubts that you have some form of autism, but you seem not to have even changed from 8 years ago when you wrote a similar topic on that other website. It takes baby steps to change.

Also what kind of women are you aiming for? You can't aim for a 10 and expect not to get rejected. You need to set a realistic benchmark. At the end of the day looks fade, it is the personality that will matter. I know girls that were a 10+ in primary/high school, the girl everyone wanted. 20 years later they look worst than the average looking girls in that time period. Look beyond the skin and find somsene you click with rather then superficial things you think a woman should be.