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I have read some product views on dating sites an watched some videos discussing that dating sites are a dead end and a complete waste of time.

Online dating is cold, cold approach it is on par with random calling people and trying to sell stuff online or in the past telemarketers, random callers on the phone.
Online dating is a lottery and relies upon pot luck, not skill.

Cold approach in real world is better approach and takes courage.
There are more women on streets at bars, clubs, shopping mall, library, book stores, cafe, etc.
You must chase your dreams and not wait online for something to show up.
There are no top 10 to 20% of guys that get most of the women online that is nonsense line that keeps getting repeated over and over.

If something looks too good to be true it is more than likely a cat fish.
Love Island, Instagram, social media female/male model that lives overseas is not wasting her/his time on a free dating site.
The model pics gets the people to sign up and join the site to make the rich site developers richer as the suckers chase the dream of the perfect woman/man.

Scout by having people find out if someone is interested in you and gather information before making an approach.
More information you have the more likely of getting a better outcome.

Focus on study/career and get some  hobbies/interests and focus on living your life and doing what makes you happy instead of online dating site that leads to nothing but a dead end and lowers self esteem/confidence and may lead to mental health issues.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 21 March 2019