| CrazyGamer2017 said: I don't mean to say that you are literally "warned" that you can get raped, I'm saying that you are warned about joining a human being that can carry any flaw carried by human beings and that is a FACT. Also you are again misinterpreting my words: Where did I say that you sign a contract ACCEPTING that your spouse can rape you? Where on earth did I say that? Of course that this would be 'incredibly fucked up", and also incredibly dumb. Who would sign a paper that literally says that you accept being raped? But what is ALSO fucked up is that you are trying to imply that I said that. Why? It's one thing to disagree with me, but it's another to make me say things I did not say. As for the threat of abuse or rape being implied in marriage, I never said it was implied either. No one marries assuming they can be abused, obviously. I'm ONLY saying people should be careful and consider the worst. Do I know that guy well enough to marry him? But people don't ask that question to themselves nowhere near enough before marriage and THAT is what I mean by them not taking responsibility of their choices to marry. As for the mindset I have been pushing, you got me so wrong and are so further away from what I have been pushing that it hurts my back. The mindset I have been pushing is one where a woman WISE UP and is SMARTER and more CAUTIOUS and does not too easily TRUST a man and as a consequence will not so easily marry that man because she takes responsibility for her choice of marriage, therefore such a woman is ACTUALLY going to statistically avoid situations where she could fall victim to an abuser. YOU on the other hand with this mindset of no responsibility for her choice, nothing she can do, just marry and see what happens, if it's a good guy, good if it's a bad guy, too bad... THAT mindset is the worst in my opinion, it's a mindset of ignorance, it's the SAME mindset where women are not educated to STD's and how they can be protected by using condoms from unwanted pregnancy or STD's or no one teaches them to be careful and smart and ask for a prenup contract to protect their assets before marrying some guy who could totally rob them blind etc. Because if you teach her to wise up and take RESPONSIBILITY for her choices, she'll be MORE in CONTROL of her life. So in my opinion not wanting a woman to take responsibility for her choices and therefore be more in control of her life is incredibly fucked up. "It's not your choice, honey, it's not your responsibility, so no need to learn about life, choices, STD's, rape, robbers of assets inside marriage etc. No need to learn that my little girl cause you have NO RESPONSIBILITY in the choices that will be taken in your life...." (THIS IS INCREDIBLY FUCKED UP and THIS is what I'm fighting in this debate) This is what I have been saying throughout this debate and yet some people not only ignored this but also went as far as saying that I am implying that women are guilty of men raping them within marriage which is as opposite as day and night to what I am saying. |
You say that it's a non sequitur right here:
http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8771892
And again, you're talking about her having to take responsibility, once again trying to focus on what she should have done instead of just saying that the husband shouldn't have raped her.
