Cheating in relationships

[VGPolyglot]

Rab said:

VGPolyglot said:

Is that the kind of relationship you want though, one where you can't honest and upfront about things?

All you are doing is passing on the guilt and hurt onto someone your supposed to love so you feel a bit better, it's a selfish act, what they dont know wont hurt them, leave them in peace  

It's selfish to damage people's perception of you in order to be honest to your significant other?