I had that same problem. For me I found I had to just suck it up and keep putting myself out there; like most things, you get better with practice.
For me, I don't view sex as a priority right now. It's something that I just don't feel like is necessary at the moment.
Fair enough. Sex drive varies by person I suppose.
Still working on it, or just not interested in it?
If you don't mind me asking, with a monogamous partner? Not that I think there is anything wrong being poly, mind.
Um I usually avoid people already in relationships but sometimes people lie :(
It's unfortunate people feel the need to lie. There's nothing from with having multiple partners or casual sex so long as it's done safely and honestly.