Did you just compare gender switching on a forum to atomic bombs? Do you feel like that's a good example?
did u ask a mod if they change it for u? the option isnt good because to many people would use it to troll, and i dont think its such a big deal if u have to talk to a mod for the change. we are talking about a realy small groupe of people, sure its never very nice to talk to a mod, but this way is better for us as a whole.