Hey, I just met this really nice lady who really likes me for who I am, and she's pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me.

Just so you know, we haven't ever had sex, haven't even seen each other showing much skin, we're just not there yet. However, often I find myself looking at art, photos or videos of sexy ladies, and sometimes I just can't help but masturbate to them, but part of me doesn't feel right about it anymore now that I have a girlfriend.

Is it wrong to masturbate when you've got a girlfriend?

Yeah, why wouldnt it be?

I mean, it depends on what kind of person you are, but masturbating to porn(of random people) and feeling guilty about it is as "stupid" as thinking that a random lady is pretty when you spot one and feel guilty about it.

Whats important is that you love your girlfriend.The part about having urges that dosent involve cheating is simply animal instinct that everyone simply has and shouldnt feel ashamed.

I really thought this thread was going to take a different turn, to be quite honest.

Not if it's hentai.

It's bad to masturbate period, stop it.

Long answer- No

Short answer- No

You could always just masturbate to pictures of her. I'm sure she'd find that less disturbing!

There is nothing wrong with masturbating to porn while in a relationship.

But it's better if you do it together.

Read the Bible to understand.

He asked a question about relationships, not middle-eastern mythology.

Send pics.