You're seeing what you want to see. If everything I've already explained in this thread hasn't made it clear to you, I can't help you.
Everything you've explained is literally a single quote that was hardly dispositive. Meanwhile, the whole of her character's behavior in recent episodes point in another direction.
That's not complex changes. If that's where they're going, they did a terrible job.
And, no, it's not because I love Daenerys. I'm simply watching the show, seeing the inconsistency in this theory that Daenerys is out of control when matched with her state of mind throughout the season. I'm noticing that they half-quoted Varys's loyalty oath where he swore not to go behind her back like he did the other kings. I'm noting Jorah's last bit of advise to Dany was to trust Tyrion after his recent failures, who wants to believe in his queen. This feels like the final storyline for Varys and Tyrion, not for Daenerys.
Could I be wrong? Sure. It's very possible the writers are simply booting this storyline.