The women can use the guy up for free meals, drinks , fix her car, pay her mortgage and feed her kids. The women on dating sites do not even have to work real jobs. She is constantly searching for next guy/victim for next free ride. It is probably for the best I do not get picked by women on dating sites.
Women on dating sites can have many guys they can string along use up for free meals, drinks, pay bills, free trips. free everything. Do you want to be the lucky guy she pick as her next prey? She has strong connections, strong police and a team of Beta males to protect her.
From your statement, I guess you had your share of bad experiences. I do not think, however, that all women are the same, and it is not fair to generalize (the same goes to women that generalize men).
I think that, with that attitude, it will be harder for you to find someone that does not fit that profile, but I guarantee you, there’s plenty of women that are worth your time. Is it possible that you are the one being too picky? Well, my advice is, don't give up.