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I'm happy for you. Hope everything works out for you



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Thats great to hear.Its nice to see when people reach out to others.



My (locked) thread about how difficulty should be a decision for the developers, not the gamers.

https://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/thread.php?id=241866&page=1

Great story! Very uplifting! Society often puts pressure on us to hide our weaknesses and put a brave front forward but sometimes you have to open up in order for things to get better.



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That's a really nice story. Glad things have worked out for you, and good luck on the network. :)



- "If you have the heart of a true winner, you can always get more pissed off than some other asshole."

This is great, dude. Happy for you.



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Awesome story. Thanks for sharing your message of hope.

Congratulations on your network and for helping out others as well!



Glad you are doing better. There are people out there like me that can have a lot of friends if I choose but I only want a few select friends. Having a ton of semi friends is nothing compared to having a few close friends. Those semi friends are highly unlikely to come to your aid. Hell, even having close friends it is hard for them to come to your aid sometimes.

Basically, I'm just saying you don't need a billion "friends".  You only need a few select people to care.  It isn't a popularity contest like it was in high school.



VGPolyglot said:
Very nice story

Thanks man!

S.Peelman said:
What an inspirational story.

I'm very happy for you, and reading this you've made me a bit happier today as well.

It warms my heart knowing that I made your day a bit better. :)

b00moscone said:
Really inspirational stuff man. I'm glad everything's turned for the better for you, and you're out there helping other people now!

Thanks man! Yeah it's crazy stuff. One day I am suicidal the next I'm a known voice in the public debate. 

jason1637 said:
I'm happy for you. Hope everything works out for you

Thanks buddy! :)

Nautilus said:
Thats great to hear.Its nice to see when people reach out to others.

Thanks man!

TruckOSaurus said:
Great story! Very uplifting! Society often puts pressure on us to hide our weaknesses and put a brave front forward but sometimes you have to open up in order for things to get better.

Exactly!

mZuzek said:
Wow.

I think really, the best things in life usually come out of our darkest times.

I am 100% certain you are right.

COKTOE said:
That's a really nice story. Glad things have worked out for you, and good luck on the network. :)

Thanks man!

finalrpgfantasy said:
This is great, dude. Happy for you.

Thanks :D

Xeon said:
Awesome story. Thanks for sharing your message of hope.

Congratulations on your network and for helping out others as well!

Thank you, Xeon. :)

sethnintendo said:

Glad you are doing better. There are people out there like me that can have a lot of friends if I choose but I only want a few select friends. Having a ton of semi friends is nothing compared to having a few close friends. Those semi friends are highly unlikely to come to your aid. Hell, even having close friends it is hard for them to come to your aid sometimes.

Basically, I'm just saying you don't need a billion "friends".  You only need a few select people to care.  It isn't a popularity contest like it was in high school.

You're right. 



A few days ago my story went viral on Imgur. And these are the articles that came in the aftermath.

English:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/lonely-man-reveals-how-desperate-11532241
http://metro.co.uk/2017/11/16/man-makes-loads-of-new-friends-after-loneliness-drove-him-to-brink-of-suicide-7083695/
http://www.boredpanda.com/how-a-single-message-changed-my-life-and-10000-others-2/
http://www.indy100.com/article/loneliness-smilet-danmark-social-page-facebook-network-patrick-cakirli-8056016
http://www.inspiremore.com/patrick-cakirli-loneliness/
http://www.shemazing.net/im-lonely-this-guys-post-ignited-a-nationwide-campaign/
http://thechive.com/2017/11/16/depressed-man-writes-letter-seeking-friendship-is-overwhelmed-with-support/

Italian:
http://www.huffingtonpost.it/2017/11/15/mi-sento-disperatamente-solo-ecco-come-un-singolo-messaggio-ha-cambiato-una-vita-e-quella-di-altre-10mila-persone_a_23277882/?ref=fbpr
http://www.tpi.it/2017/11/15/lettera-ragazzo-danese-cambiato-vita-10mila-persone/
http://www.caffeinamagazine.it/la-storia/235553-la-storia-di-patrick-dalla-solitudine-alla-gioia-grazie-alla-rete/
https://www.fanpage.it/sono-solo-cosi-il-messaggio-di-un-giovane-ha-cambiato-la-sua-vita-e-quella-di-10mila-persone/

Spanish:
http://www.biobiochile.cl/noticias/sociedad/debate/2017/11/15/me-siento-desesperadamente-solo-como-un-simple-mensaje-cambio-la-vida-a-10-000-personas.shtml
https://es.vida-estilo.yahoo.com/hombre-lanzó-simple-mensaje-redes-slideshow-wp-182159246.html
http://www.europapress.es/desconecta/lifestyle/noticia-manda-mensaje-pidiendo-ayuda-contra-soledad-hacerlo-cambio-vida-10000-personas-mas-20171116191927.html
http://www.telecinco.es/informativos/sociedad/mensaje-desesperado-solitario-inspiro-personas_0_2468551116.html
http://www.cuatro.com/noticias/sociedad/mensaje-desesperado-solitario-inspiro-personas_0_2468551117.html

Chinese:
- https://www.bomb01.com/article/48119/
https://buzzorange.com/vidaorange/2017/11/16/how-a-single-message-changed-my-life-and-10000-others/

Portuguese: 
https://vejasp.abril.com.br/blog/pop/pedido-ajuda-ajudar-pessoas/

Hungarian:
http://www.szeretlekmagyarorszag.hu/ketsegbeesett-uzenetet-hagyott-a-facebookon-tobb-ezer-ember-eletet-valtoztatta-meg-vele/

Albanian:
http://www.pamfleti.com/kerkoj-deshperimisht-miq-te-rinj-jam-tmerresisht-vetem-riu-nxjerr-nje-lajmerim-ne-rrjete-sociale-ajo-qe-ndodh-pas

Finnish:
http://www.iltalehti.fi/fiidifiartikkelit/201711142200532743_fi.shtml