As a university graduate with 2 degrees and a good career how about I provide an alternative suggestion ...
Men in their 20's and 30's are the first generation who were raised to believe that everything about being a man was "wrong" and "sexist" by institutions and organizations that are heavily manipulated by feminist academics and social engineers. These men have now escaped into their own fantasy worlds believing that the world has no "purpose" for them, while their absence has left a large portion of the social structure collapsing around them.
Its a shame the image of men within society has been belittled for the benefit of women this generation.
But, its kind of funny if you think about it, a lot of these men are probably happier without the stress/time cost of married life and children.
They can play video games all they please, travel wherever they want on weekends, play sports, workout, pick up one night stands, have a steady girlfriend, or get a new girlfriend without having to go through divorce/alimony/loss of assets/etc.
They don't have to follow the mass media's propaganda; they just live their lives as they see fit and enjoy life. Sort of Zentastic :D compared to the outdated lifestyle of the "traditional American man" they want this new generation of men to adhere to. Ambition ≠ Happiness