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My friend is short, chubby, unattractive and has burn marks on his face. However he exudes a lot of confidence and personality so he always gets attention from the ladies.

I believe that whining is probably the least attractive trait a person can have. No offense to you of course, I've also been down the route of complaining and whining and trust me, even as an attractive guy it turns off women and generally people away from you. Just be yourself and be confident and trust me no one will think of you as a loser, even if you don't have looks. Like many have said, personality and confidence is probably the biggest turn on/ attractive trait someone can have.