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WessleWoggle on 14 October 2009
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
Anyways, one question, what's wrong with people your age? I think you say you were bi, so is this your first gay accouter ?

I'm attracted to older guys.

Yes, this would be my first, if you don't count the one incident of childhood molestation.

daddy issues?

Any real relationships?

I had no father or steady male role model.

I've had no real relationships, they were all a few weeks long.



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Seece on 14 October 2009

Oh god not that old chestnut.

Can't a guy just be attracted to an old guy cos he thinks he's fit?



 

psrock on 14 October 2009
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
Anyways, one question, what's wrong with people your age? I think you say you were bi, so is this your first gay accouter ?

I'm attracted to older guys.

Yes, this would be my first, if you don't count the one incident of childhood molestation.

daddy issues?

Any real relationships?

I had no father or steady male role model.

I've had no real relationships, they were all a few weeks long.

I'm guessing they were mostly sexual?

@seece, he asked for advice, right? 

 



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WessleWoggle on 14 October 2009
highwaystar101 said:
Slimebeast said:
highwaystar101 said:
Slimebeast said:
WessleWoggle said:
He made me touch his penis...

Nothing more serious?

I would rank that as pretty serious.

Yes, I'd put him in jail for it, but it's a lot worse to put it in a kids mouth.

Both are really messed up. Putting it in a kids mouth is far far worse, but I agree with you that both situations should result in jail or some other form of punishment.

I still remember what it felt like to have my hand around a penis...

Punishing him won't make that go away. Not that I care, I actually enjoy the memory now, it turns me on. But as a child it was bad and weird...

 



WessleWoggle on 14 October 2009
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
Anyways, one question, what's wrong with people your age? I think you say you were bi, so is this your first gay accouter ?

I'm attracted to older guys.

Yes, this would be my first, if you don't count the one incident of childhood molestation.

daddy issues?

Any real relationships?

I had no father or steady male role model.

I've had no real relationships, they were all a few weeks long.

I'm guessing they were mostly sexual?

@seece, he asked for advice, right? 

 


No, they were all when I was a preteen...

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Chairman-Mao on 14 October 2009

Umm don't you see anything wrong with hanging out with a 31 year old dude when your 17. Like I'm putting the gay part aside, and just focusing on the age difference. That's kinda wrong. 



psrock on 14 October 2009
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
WessleWoggle said:
psrock said:
Anyways, one question, what's wrong with people your age? I think you say you were bi, so is this your first gay accouter ?

I'm attracted to older guys.

Yes, this would be my first, if you don't count the one incident of childhood molestation.

daddy issues?

Any real relationships?

I had no father or steady male role model.

I've had no real relationships, they were all a few weeks long.

I'm guessing they were mostly sexual?

@seece, he asked for advice, right? 

 

No, they were all when I was a preteen...

I'm not sure you are gay or bi at all ? I think events in your life has confused the hell out of you. But, being honest and talking about these issues can only help.

I seriously advise you see a shrink.



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WessleWoggle on 14 October 2009
Chairman-Mao said:

Umm don't you see anything wrong with hanging out with a 31 year old dude when your 17. Like I'm putting the gay part aside, and just focusing on the age difference. That's kinda wrong.

Why? We're both humans who have needs. Does it really matter that he's lived 14 years longer?



WessleWoggle on 14 October 2009
psrock said:

 Woggle:

No, they were all when I was a preteen...

I'm not sure you are gay or bi at all ? I think events in your life has confused the hell out of you. But, being honest and talking about these issues can only help.

I seriously advise you see a shrink.

Do I need to see a shrink if none of the experiences in my past caused me any emotional trauma?

I'm pretty sure I'm bi. I find both men and women attractive, and I'm into prostate stimulation.



highwaystar101 on 14 October 2009
Chairman-Mao said:

Umm don't you see anything wrong with hanging out with a 31 year old dude when your 17. Like I'm putting the gay part aside, and just focusing on the age difference. That's kinda wrong. 

The age difference is weird, I guess in a situation like that you just have to be very sure about what you are doing. To be honest I would meet up with him a few times to check him out Wesslewoggle, he could be looking for high school boys to, well, you know. Just saying some people can be a bit deceiving.