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TheRealMafoo said:
txrattlesnake said:
I'm over 30 and I wouldn't sleep with a woman in my age group that had slept with more than 10 men. But it didn't matter so much at times in my twenties.

 

How many women have you slept with?

 

 What's it to you?



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txrattlesnake said:
TheRealMafoo said:
txrattlesnake said:
I'm over 30 and I wouldn't sleep with a woman in my age group that had slept with more than 10 men. But it didn't matter so much at times in my twenties.

 

How many women have you slept with?

 

 What's it to you?

 

Just wondering if it's more then 10, and if it is, why the double standard.



txrattlesnake said:
I'm over 30 and I wouldn't sleep with a woman in my age group that had slept with more than 10 men. But it didn't matter so much at times in my twenties.

 

 Good luck with that.



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TheRealMafoo said:
akuma587 said:
Guys and girls just look at sex differently for the most part. Its largely a phenomenon of evolution. Girls have a different type of biochemistry and react to situations differently than men do. Sex is also pretty different physically for males and females in terms of who is doing what.

Not to mention, as Rubang pointed out earlier, girls have a lot more to lose from sex gone wrong as they can get pregnant. So their brain tells them to look at it as a more personal kind of attachment. For a guy, at least from an evolutionary standpoint, the goal is to spread as much seed around as possible, so many guys don't look at it from the same perspective. What males and females look for in sex is fundamentally different.

 

Yea, I think about sex more like women thinks about it. I know I am not the norm though.

 

Same here man, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm a really affectionate and loving person, as well as just an extremely nice person in general. I easily make friends with everyone.

 

And like I said earlier, I'd love nothing more than to find the perfect girl and spend every minute of my life having the greatest life with her. <3

Finding her is the hard part. v_v

 

Oh and for the record, I'm 19. :P

 

I've always been a big sucker for cute love stories in videogames/books/movies/animes. I really want something like that..

 

And I realize that it's really different from the norm!



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TheRealMafoo said:
txrattlesnake said:
TheRealMafoo said:
txrattlesnake said:
I'm over 30 and I wouldn't sleep with a woman in my age group that had slept with more than 10 men. But it didn't matter so much at times in my twenties.

 

How many women have you slept with?

 

 What's it to you?

 

Just wondering if it's more then 10, and if it is, why the double standard.

 

 more than one less than 10.

I think the stigma comes from the fact that women that have slept with a lot of guys are considered to be nasty and guys don't really want to go where other guys have been.



txrattlesnake said:

 

 more than one less than 10.

I think the stigma comes from the fact that women that have slept with a lot of guys are considered to be nasty and guys don't really want to go where other guys have been.

Why is it that one side is only considered? Don't you think some women might find it just as disgusting that men dip their penis in many vagina?



When I used to whore around, it wasn't cool. I usually felt bad afterwards, but it felt like I was doing what I had to do. I've been legit since March, though. There are some people who want to 'high-five' me, and other people who want to slap me in the face.

As for women who sleep around, I feel really sorry for them. Some of them are just looking for kicks, but a lot of them are looking for attention, love, or acceptance. I hate it because the guys that tend to take advantage of them (myself included) are usually like poison for them. I won't go into specifics, but I've seen some truly heartbreaking stuff and it makes me want to cry.

There's a double standard. No doubt about that. In a perfect world, people would use a little more common sense when they choose somebody to make love to. That's all I have to say on this subject.



WhiteDevil said:
antfromtashkent said:
WhiteDevil said:
Even if you do "wrap it" it can still happen.

99.9% odds? ILL TAKE IT!

 

Ive got a mate that was wearing one. Girlfriend was on the pill and it still happend. it doesnt matter if its ment to happen it will. You can help the fact but doesnt mean itll never happen.

99.9% means 1 in 1000 chance of it happening yes? Do you think youll have sex 1000 times in your life time? It is very well possible

 

Condom can slip off if not careful or it can break.  I've had one break on me before (was a Trojan) and I've had one or two slip off because I didn't grasp on and pull out right after done.  Stayed inside for a little longer then I should have (girl didn't want me to leave at the time) so when I went to grasp it I was already a little limp and she pulled back too quickly or something.   Anyways, I prefer the girl to be on the pill but that is probably worse than condoms because they have to remember to take it around the same time everyday and not to take antibiotics , etc..  I got one of my last girls pregnant and she was on the pill.  Luckily she had a miscarriage because she later left me for another guy that lives in another country.  Oh, and somehow I escaped the disease infested Lubbock, TX while going to Texas Tech without a STD.  I think the college rate STD was around mid 30% and high school was around mid 40%.  Hopefully, I can find a nice woman soon that is clean that is marriage material.

 

On topic: Girl (aged 25+) has to sleep with at least 15 or plus guys to be a slut.  However, if they are 18 and slept with 5 or more already by then I would have probably considered them a slut when I used to be in high school.  Depends on the age and how many they slept with.  I would probably say a girl between age 20-25 that slept with more than 10+ is a slut.

I've been with I think 10 (one or two I barely did put I guess I still have to count, like one time I barely went in then realized she wasn't on pill and we didn't have condom so I quickly stopped).  I am 26 almost 27.  I usually stick with one girl for a few months at least.

 



lolita said:
txrattlesnake said:

 

 more than one less than 10.

I think the stigma comes from the fact that women that have slept with a lot of guys are considered to be nasty and guys don't really want to go where other guys have been.

Why is it that one side is only considered? Don't you think some women might find it just as disgusting that men dip their penis in many vagina?

 

      Well, I'm trying to think about this from an evolutionary standpoint and why such notions as being discussed here would have grown up over time in the mind of humanity.  And, the uncleanliness stigmata might come a little bit from the fact that it might have been considered at some point in the development of human thought processes easier to wash or clean something that is obviously there and external like the male anatomy than it would be to clean something that was hidden and internal like the female anatomy.