If you have people who have met her, then your far better off with there advice then ours, but here is my gut feeling.

You gave her your number. If she didn't call, then she is playing the part to get the maximum money out of you. Some people would give her more money if she played the slut, some if she played the "girlfriend". Her intuition let her to realize your the later.

If you really want to know, ask her for her number. If she gives it to you, then you know there is an option for more, if not, then you know she is just extremely good at what she does.

Ahh, I should have read more before I posted. Good for you. I give it a 20% chance of working out.

Let's hope I am wrong :)

Thanks, realmafoo. 20% chances are pretty good considering her caliber.

I type the op using the PS3 so that explains the wall of text I'll boot up my laptop and fix it

I do have a pic with her outside the place. They won't leave my iphone though.

I'm likely going to move into an appartment on the poshest street in my city this week, so I'll see if dropping that fact on her ears leads anywhere. ( that has been in the works since before I started pursuing her. )

I would not really do that if I were you. She knows you have money. If that's what she is after, it's already worked. Just spend some time with her and make sure she is interested in you, and not what you can buy.


I assume you are not all that interested in dating someone who just looks at you as a paycheck. If so, then stop acting like one ;)

Point taken. I will answer if she asks where I live though.

I guess I'll go back to playing the waiting game and hoping she calls for a serious relationship

Heck even if nothing happens outside the club, I do appreciate her services and her company at the club. Since I don't have much time for wooing regular girls either and I'd just assume spend money on private dances and know I'm going to feel like a million bucks for a while everytime.

Well, good evening.

I thought you had a date with her set up?

We had tentative plans for the Symphony. In other words, we (boss and I) would use our contacts to get tickets for a given night where a group of us would be in a balcony. However, the tickets have not been bought (to my knowlege) and no official calendar date was given.

That is still an option, but when I was invited to a party at a record producer's house I asked if I could bring a date knowing that since the dancer wants to start a music career, she would jump on the party opportunity.

So last 1 am, I wrote her that the Symphony plan was on the backburner while I put the party that could lead to her living her actual dream on the frontburner on max power with the cover on.

EDIT: So what I tried to do is convert our implied enjoyable date into an overt potentially career forwarding, life changing date.

Edit:  Should have read the thread before giving entirely outdated advice.

That's actually brilliant advice. All of it. I'll run it by my friends, but I might just roll with it. It clears everything up for her, makes her feel secure, that there are no strings attachedand most of all, no risks. I love it! Thank you. :)

Oh good lol.

I read the first few posts and then wrote my "just ask her" advice, not realising you already had sushi.

But yeah the rest of the post still stands.  If you are upfront and honest, but say you will keep paying to come and see her, you remove her incentive to lie, and make it easier for both of you.