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So I come home from work and I have this aim message:

"So I talk to you for the first time on 2 years and all you can do is keep trying to spread shit around and talk about me behind my back? I had a little hope you weren't that much of a bitch but I guess you are. That's okay, 2 can play at that game. Remember how everyone thought you paid Casey to have sex with him? Yeah...keep your mouth shut or you'll be finding out soon just how ugly rumors can get."

This is a girl that I used to be friends with, we had a big falling out and she went all psycho bitch on my ass. She talks to me once on aim, I happen to mention something she said to my friend. I freak out and say oh god don't say anything shes psycho when she gets angry. That apparently didn't help.

I can easily retaliate to this by reposting this message she sent to me as a myspace bulletin, exposing what a bitch she is. Or I could just not care. Any advice?



[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan

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expose the bitch, do it!



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11/20/09 04:25 makingmusic476 Warning Other (Your avatar is borderline NSFW. Please keep it for as long as possible.)

Well, it's always hard to give advice like this having only one side of the story, but the best thing to do really is to just keep on keeping on (and not retaliate). I couldn't help but throw in a Bob Dylan reference. Speaking of Bob Dylan, in your situation, you should listen to Positively 4th Street. No song I know of expresses a falling out quite as well.



Remember, Forgiveness is a principal too.



definitely do it, drama is the spice of life! Let us know what happens next! Where's that joker with popcorn Gif?



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Well A.) those rumors she "spread" were so ridiculous none of my friends believed them at the time. and B.) Its been so long she doesn't know most of my current friends.

I made a booboo just now yes, but I don't appreciate being threatened and I still have those old friends that I have nothing to do with that know her added on my myspace...



[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan

Just say, "I'm sorry that I got you mad. I wasn't trying to talk behind your back, and if you fee thats what I have been doing, then I'll heed your request and stop taking about you with anyone."

If she posts that all over, no one will get mad or disrespect you, it will calm her down, and then from now on you should avoid her and never talk to her.



Oh, but "say" I mean post on Aim



Do it for sure.



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apparently she sent me a myspace message too:

You have messed with the wrong person. Big mistake. You might want to watch your back. I wouldn't sleep easy if I were you. I never did anything bad to you and all you have done to me is talk about me behind my back.
Say it to my face whore! Eat shit and die!!!

Jesus shes psychotic. She needs to be put in a mental institution...

I certainly didn't say anything that would warrant that message.



[2:08:58 am] Moongoddess256: being asian makes you naturally good at ddr
[2:09:22 am] gnizmo: its a weird genetic thing
[2:09:30 am] gnizmo: goes back to hunting giant crabs in feudal Japan