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Elu on 05 February 2009
rocketpig said:
Women are diverse enough where there isn't a set of qualities that appeals to them all.

It depends on what you're looking for in a woman. Looking for a shallow slut? Move to LA, hit the clubs, makes lots of money, work out, and reap the rewards.

Looking for something different? Be yourself and wait until you find the right one.

Just remember one thing: talk about what they want to talk about. I have yet to meet a woman that doesn't enjoy having someone listen to her talk about things she enjoys. In other words, ix nay on the videogame/movie/geeky shit talk around most women.

 

I want to hear the geeky gamer talk myself, though.   My ex wrote/designed his own games (what a nerd) and I tested them for him, I loved it. But I am weird, an outcast among my girlfriends.

So yes, good advice on the last paragraph there...



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Esmoreit on 05 February 2009

Whenever I bring up my hobbies, I always try and wedge gaming in there between the cool stuff.

Yeah... I do some reading, I'm a boxer, I game from time to time, do survivalruns and helping highschoolers and other students with presentation skills!

Always works. It also works when you tell people you have a wii.



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rocketpig on 05 February 2009
Elu said:
rocketpig said:
Women are diverse enough where there isn't a set of qualities that appeals to them all.

It depends on what you're looking for in a woman. Looking for a shallow slut? Move to LA, hit the clubs, makes lots of money, work out, and reap the rewards.

Looking for something different? Be yourself and wait until you find the right one.

Just remember one thing: talk about what they want to talk about. I have yet to meet a woman that doesn't enjoy having someone listen to her talk about things she enjoys. In other words, ix nay on the videogame/movie/geeky shit talk around most women.

I want to hear the geeky gamer talk myself, though.   My ex wrote/designed his own games (what a nerd) and I tested them for him, I loved it. But I am weird, an outcast among my girlfriends. 


So yes, good advice on the last paragraph there...

Some women love the geek-speak but most don't. Personally, it's never been an issue for me. Most women find it endearing that I'm a total closet geek, probably because I don't present myself as a geek right off the bat and scare them off.

Plus, it helps not to be a "scary geek". Social skills are a must. :D

 




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mesoteto on 05 February 2009

its all a lie--they say they want to be treated great but women seem to like it when you are pieces of crap...how else do you explain all those great women with shit heads



 

Elu on 05 February 2009
mesoteto said:
its all a lie--they say they want to be treated great but women seem to like it when you are pieces of crap...how else do you explain all those great women with shit heads

 

It's not all a lie. Every girl I know who is into jerks will admit it. I am most definitely not one of them.



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mesoteto on 05 February 2009

Sometimes a woman needs to look for something different to really get what they need

That is the big thing girls need to learn, its not always what you want that is good for you



 

Elu on 05 February 2009

And I agree completely.

That goes for everything else in life too, really.



SciFiBoy on 05 February 2009

wow, this is depressing, im now the only person on my facebook friends list (35 people) who is single