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Angel_DwK said:
Self deprecation is a beautiful art.

It says, "I am confident and self-aware enough to make jokes of my flaws."  It is the best way to make (most) girls like you.

Some girls like a cocky guy all the time, these are not the girls for people who post on internet forums.



I would cite regulation, but I know you will simply ignore it.

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Hawkeye said:
steven787 said:
Self deprecation also works.

 

Self confidence works MUCH better.

 

Confidence is over rated.  If you're a guy who isn't confident, you'll never be confident enough to impress a girl with your confidence.  However, you can become confident enough to accept who you are (which you'll have to, at least temporarily, if you ever plan on getting laid).

Listening.  That is the biggest thing.



I would cite regulation, but I know you will simply ignore it.

u coulda gotten the AK and gone gta on her ass lol, or not



                                                                           

Hawkeye said:
Flow said:
Oh, you shy people got a serious problem...

You know you have to "lose the shyness and go and talk to a girl".

I'll use a nice metaphor here, it's like you live in the jungle and there's a freaking big and evil tiger surrounding you and threatening to kill you in you little cave at any moment.

But you fear this tiger, yes! And by fearing the tiger i mean being shy to talk to a woman, fearing rejection.

But you know you've got to lose this fear... and what do you do?

This is the point where most of you think you've got to grab a random boulder and jump in this tiger like you have a S on your chest just because you've lost your fear. And damn, that's wrong. You may probably kill the tiger, but you will be hanging for your life. And probably the tiger will eat you alive.

What you gotta do is craft your weapons, study the tiger, train your fighting skills, and then face the tiger when you know what you are doing.

So, be aware that the direct approach (talking about women now, but that also apply on tigers and most big animals) will probably let you down. You need to make the female like you first, get friendly and intimate with her, tease her, and when you know you're there, go for that mouth, you'll know when she wants it.

THIS is what you need to stop fearing to do. Now drop that damn boulder

 

 

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or you can realize women are not tigeresses and that you can easily talk to them. Just figure out something they like and talk about it. Women tend to like talking about people, clothes, feelings, and events that are social. Shy/ non social girls won't have this interest.

 

Goddamn people, it's not like i'm telling you to fight women. Plus, this:

"Do you know why i compared the woman to a tiger? It's not because the woman is actually a threat.

It's because platonically loving a woman kills you inside. Doing nothing about this love kills you inside, you need to know if you have a chance with her and go for it or that it's going nowhere and move on and forget her, or else the pain can be unbearable."

(If you've been there, you know what i'm talking about)

And, of course, trying to joke a little, is this a crime?

 

And if you really read it, you get the point. People think that confidence means getting women, but just because you are confident that if you talk to the woman and gave her a wink she will drag you to a bed, doesn't mean it will happen. You've got to play it nice and slow.




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steven787 said:
Angel_DwK said:
Self deprecation is a beautiful art.

It says, "I am confident and self-aware enough to make jokes of my flaws."  It is the best way to make (most) girls like you.

Some girls like a cocky guy all the time, these are not the girls for people who post on internet forums.

 

You need to play this card right, some men can do it and look like they are insecure or depressed, and it won't be good.




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I don't know about the compliment thing now, because he already kind of showed his cards.

I'd change my name, quit my job, and leave the country.. ;)

No seriously though, the direct approach rarely works unless she's been giving you the signs... playing with her hair when you look at her, you catch her taking multiple glances at you (unless there is a big booger hanging out your nose, and that could be why she's staring, so check that first).

I think the smile she gives you is the big clue (if she gives you one of course).



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Flow said:
steven787 said:
Angel_DwK said:
Self deprecation is a beautiful art.

It says, "I am confident and self-aware enough to make jokes of my flaws."  It is the best way to make (most) girls like you.

Some girls like a cocky guy all the time, these are not the girls for people who post on internet forums.

 

You need to play this card right, some men can do it and look like they are insecure or depressed, and it won't be good.

 

You're right, it's very easy to cross over from humor to sounding like self hate...

Generally though, if you followed my first rule, "listen", then she won't care any way.  If she doesn't laugh move on and ask her another question.  But at that point after talking, she should laugh at just about anything you say that sounds remotely like a joke.  At least in my experience.



I would cite regulation, but I know you will simply ignore it.

well.. its true he showed his cards and kinda looked lame in the process I still think he has a chance..

this is what you do..


go up to her.. be like.. what happened where did you go..


then right when she goes to answer just be like.. na nvm I don't care anyways I be bored lets go get drunk and hump..


at that point if she still doesnt't respond well just call her a cunt and tell her to fuck off



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Angel_DwK said:
Lmao dude its cool it happens but a word of advice.. that whole straight to the point your beautiful crap doesn't work.. especially if they don't know you.. ya gotta ease into it otherwise you come off too strong and creep em out.. just act normal and don't show an interest and make it seem like you just wanna get to know em.. and if that fails just be a douche... as sad as it is women love it.. most anyways.. people just like what they can't have and women love confidence.. anyways... be cool don't show interest if that fails be a douche... don't call em names just act like you dont give a crap about what they have to say... take notes... Love Doc out.

Who have you been talking to? I've had women stop what they were doing and talk to me for a bit. One instance, a woman was at this Blockbuster and she was an older babe, but still hot. I was like 'Hay ma'am, I just have to say this - you are absolutely stunning and drop dead gourgeous.'

She stopped, looked at me and could have cried with tears of joy. She was like 'Are you being serious?'

'Yeah, why wouldn't I be? You are an attractive woman.'

'Haha. Thanks sooooo much. I needed that today. Really.'

'Well, I have to roll, boo, but yeah, you look great. I'd holla at you.'

'Thanks. I appreciate it. Have a great day.'

You are the love doctor and say you can't do that? Where did you get your degree, son? Are you fibbing? No one on here needs to amp up their game - either you have it, have the confidence and no fear of getting shot down or rejected - or you don't. Don't get it twisted - confidence separates the men from the boys. Even going the friendship route, you will eventually have to go out on a limb and risk rejection - unless you get a Russian mail order bride.

I don't know everything about woman, but I do know more about those awesome creatures than most men. And what's even funny is - you can even get back into the game with a girl who dissed you. It's not the end of the world - you just have to know how to pick the babe and be real - and risk it when you think you have a shot.

 



Flow said:
madskillz said:
Flow said:
Oh, you shy people got a serious problem...

You know you have to "lose the shyness and go and talk to a girl".

I'll use a nice metaphor here, it's like you live in the jungle and there's a freaking big and evil tiger surrounding you and threatening to kill you in you little cave at any moment.

But you fear this tiger, yes! And by fearing the tiger i mean being shy to talk to a woman, fearing rejection.

But you know you've got to lose this fear... and what do you do?

This is the point where most of you think you've got to grab a random boulder and jump in this tiger like you have a S on your chest just because you've lost your fear. And damn, that's wrong. You may probably kill the tiger, but you will be hanging for your life. And probably the tiger will eat you alive.

What you gotta do is craft your weapons, study the tiger, train your fighting skills, and then face the tiger when you know what you are doing.

So, be aware that the direct approach (talking about women now, but that also apply on tigers and most big animals) will probably let you down. You need to make the female like you first, get friendly and intimate with her, tease her, and when you know you're there, go for that mouth, you'll know when she wants it.

THIS is what you need to stop fearing to do. Now drop that damn boulder

Dude, wouldn't that approach like kill your prey? I would rather lay down and get busy than killing stuff. That's just bloody and nasty. Gimme good lovin', FTW.

 

 

Do you know why i compared the woman to a tiger? It's not because the woman is actually a threat.

It's because platonically loving a woman kills you inside. Doing nothing about this love kills you inside, you need to know if you have a chance with her and go for it or that it's going nowhere and move on and forget her, or else the pain can be unbearable.

 

Love is irrational, yes. But you need to be rational when going to talk to the girl, try to get her to like you instead of "hey you're hot let's get busy?" or something, like the OP did.

And this is what i was trying to explain with a nice, simple and bloody metaphor to help the OP stop suffering. Of course, maybe it's not love that he is feeling.

ROTFLMBO - didn't you have a prob with a girl in a thread about love - and within a week or two, you have mad advice? Look, all I can do is tell about my success and failures - and what works for most guys I know. I don't know you - and from the post about you stalking your prey and everything sounds like you drew bow in a deer hunt. It's not a game, kid - it's life. You can look at a women as prey (ok, women in a pack count) and maybe it works for you - but cats I've seen try that end up complaining they don't get out much. Just sayin'.

Oh yeah - I remember our views of love are different - and pretty much completely opposite. Infatuation will leave you dazed, confused and believing you got hit by an 18-wheeler. Love - for most of my running buddies - is thinking things out and leaving irrational behaviour in the dust.

I was being sarcastic as far as that - but back in the day when I was a heathen, I got some action by acting just like that.

You can pretty much look at a babe and talk to her for a minute or two and see where her head's at. I haven't been shot down in nearly 10 years.