You might want to tell him what exactly the green light is.

But don't ask me. I'm far more skilled at shooting people down than letting them know I like em.

Haha. A lady in the thread - it would be great to hear your opinion on our approaches and the like. Seriously, your view is mucho appreciated.

you got it pretty much correct madskillz.

Give me advice too, how should I take it if a guy acts like he really likes me but when I want to hang out with him alone he gets all funny about it? I go for the most confusing of guys :(

Dude that sucks even I didn't get that pwn.

Oh, you shy people got a serious problem...

You know you have to "lose the shyness and go and talk to a girl".

I'll use a nice metaphor here, it's like you live in the jungle and there's a freaking big and evil tiger surrounding you and threatening to kill you in you little cave at any moment.

But you fear this tiger, yes! And by fearing the tiger i mean being shy to talk to a woman, fearing rejection.

But you know you've got to lose this fear... and what do you do?

This is the point where most of you think you've got to grab a random boulder and jump in this tiger like you have a S on your chest just because you've lost your fear. And damn, that's wrong. You may probably kill the tiger, but you will be hanging for your life. And probably the tiger will eat you alive.

What you gotta do is craft your weapons, study the tiger, train your fighting skills, and then face the tiger when you know what you are doing.

So, be aware that the direct approach (talking about women now, but that also apply on tigers and most big animals) will probably let you down. You need to make the female like you first, get friendly and intimate with her, tease her, and when you know you're there, go for that mouth, you'll know when she wants it.

THIS is what you need to stop fearing to do. Now drop that damn boulder

Rule #1 for the first move: Don't say 'I know who you are' or any variation of that.

They are just gonna think you are a stalker, start by introducing yourself, they will most likely introduce themselves back... and then you go from there.

My tip, go to another country, your exotic accent will pull the chicks.

That's an easy one, moongoddess. Does he choke up around you? If he is, he's prolly enamored by you. I know back in the day, there were some women so hot I would just get excited about and would forget all reason. However, the older I got, I just told myself 'They are just like you, son. Normal women.' It's really just infatuation.

Unless you are lying about being a gamer, a girl/woman/female that plays games is a commodity. You may be his peer in the gaming realm, but if you are an item in his heart, he's walk through glass, embers and ice to holla.

Holla back and let us know the deal. Or PM me.

I've been stalked before. Being stalked sucks.

This is hilarious! XD

And don't be down... It happened to anyone. ^^ I'm sure she must have got rejected too. And well, yeah just start by being friendly... And slowly warm things up... Check out how she reacts.