Tales of Vesperia is only available in Japan. There is no  PAL release date for Tales of Vesperia. Infinite Undiscovery and Lost Odyssey are available in all regions.

Tales is the #1 rated JRPG this entire generation, beating out the closest competitor, Disgaea 3 by a comfortable margin.

Having said that, it really depends on what you want for a RPG. If you want action-based, try Oblivion, Mass Effect or Tales of Vesperia.

If you want slower, turnbased gaming, try Lost Odyssey or Blue Dragon.

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Then the one I ordered from the USA as a present for a friend is... Japanese? and... it seems to be in English...?

Sorry I made a mistake. The game is not available in my country. No PAL version available. I am not from USA,

PAL region gets a lot of game delays. SSBB, MK Wii were both delayed.

Tales of Vesperia has been delayed as well in PAL region due to having to translate the game in lots of different languages: French, German, Dutch and English

So if i like Mass efffect and oblivion Tales would be the best choice?

Tales of Vesperia; it's a very high quality RPG with a very enjoyable battle system to support it. My definite recommendation.

LO is great. would definately get that one.

I haven't played IU yet, but LO and Tales are both quality games. I don't think you could go wrong with either.