@ rubang - agreed but when i say bi i mean if a guy or a girl is interested and they want some fun then they wont have second thoughts. (from what iv seen anyway)

It's not anything new. Thirty or forty years ago people joined the boyscouts so they could go to a jubilee and attend a real live circle jerk. For fun closer to home there was the men's bathroom at the bowling alley. And just like jocks today like to beat up emos the jocks of yesteryear beat up the guys in the chess club.

Maybe, just maybe, and I know this is a pretty wacky idea here, but maybe they're actually bisexual?

@The Ghost of RubangB

Where do you think asexuals would fall on that bell curve? I guess 0%heterosexual/0%homosexual. Or maybe some sort of mix: 20% heterosexual/5%homosexual/75%Indifferent. Do you believe such a person exists?

This has become an extremely interesting thread. I learned alot.

There will be a more open, free, fair and tolerant society

Asexuals are either:

Not on the curve at all

or

They would be somewhere on the curve, but have denied their sexuality entirely somehow so we can't tell?



There are people who can fall in love and just never enjoy sex for whatever reason. They might be over-circumcized or have painful vaginal spasms or many other things that just make sex so painful that it's not worth it, but they still fall in love, and the people they fall in love with and confide in is what defines their sexuality. I mean, if I get impotent and never have another erection again, am I suddenly asexual?


I can't make a decision about asexuals as a group. I'd need to know more about the individual. I mean, anybody can claim to be an asexual, but if we hid cameras in their room and caught the masturbating, that'd be a different story. Then again, maybe they don't fantasize when they masturbate, and it's just like brushing their teeth?



Oh word, I just looked it up:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality

Asexuals have no sexual attraction, but it doesn't mean they don't have sex.
Celibates don't have sex, but it doesn't mean they don't have sexual attraction.

I guess if they have no sexual attraction, they'd be on the curve based on their emotional attraction, just like everybody else.

I have left that as an option in my other post and see that obviously for all I know this group of people who I have seen are actualy bi, but I know people from that group who started that exact way then grew out of it in like a year, I asked one and he just said it was a phase.

@The Ghost of RubangB
That's cool. Everything but the sex sounds about right. But their partners split when they find out, which sucks. Oh, well.

It wouldn't  be called "faith" then, now would it? "You have seen and believe. Blessed are those who have not seen and believe"

Interestingly, the concept of athiesm didn't evolve until quite some10's of thousands of years down the road of mankind. Even the earliest tribes show evidence of ritualistic worship. They didn't quite have a means of religious documents to learn from, but their native instincts told them that they should be worshipping SOMETHING that was greater than them. The first athiest society wasn't until sometime after the early Chinese civilizations, further west in what was/is dubbed Mesopotamia.

you could see it as an instinct or pregiven knowledge that we should be worshiping something. Personally I see it as them all being dumb as hell and that was their best way of rationalizing phenomena that they couldn't explain such as rain, lightning, and all that other natural occurrences that so bewildered early mankind.

Our understanding took 10's of thousands of years, so it took a while before we had ways to explain things other than (the ____ god did it)