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For me...

Under 5 years 15 28.30%
 
5-9 years 20 37.74%
 
10-14 years 9 16.98%
 
15-19 years 6 11.32%
 
20 or more 3 5.66%
 
Total:53

I am assuming dating refers to casual, more serious relationships, and pickups?

Anyway, I have been married for long enough to spawn out some brats, so dating is long in the past for me. 8 years older and almost 12 years younger.

As far as casual goes, during my first months of University, I hooked up with a ~25/26-year-old woman multiple times (she lived in my building), but we had no real relationship to speak of. It was just fun, and we did not discuss our dating lives. From what I gather from a mutual friend, she was embarrassed to be with someone as young as me =D

The young end of my dating range was 17 subtracted from what my age happened to be.


For the record, I was not some sex-pervert that went exclusively for young women. I still hooked up with older women even up to the weeks before I met my wife (the oldest woman I have ever been with was a French woman who was 34 years old). But it is a fact of life, especially since the digital age kicked into full gear, that younger men no longer date very often, and so there are way more available younger women that are interested in relationships. I am not sure if sex drives are just way down or if anti-women sexism is much higher among younger men. It is certainly not the case with women as many young women are very interested in relationships =)

Oddly enough, I always found it difficult to date women my age; it was rare that I would date women within 3 years of my age, increasingly rare as I got older. Now maybe that is due to some kind of a social-disorder or some sick perverted vibe I gave off =)

Last edited by Jumpin - on 30 November 2019

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Just started seeing another girl who is 24, which is once again 6 years younger than I am, so a tie for my biggest age gap. Too early yet to say if it will last. She's nice, but with everything I have going on atm it might be too hard to manage a relationship.



Mark Twain: Age is Mind over Matter. If you don't Mind...It does not Matter.



10 years younger and 6 years older.



19 and she was 35. 2 year relationship. Now I’m with my soon to be wife and she is 36 I’m 30