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What should I do?

Apologize and go home. 13 61.90%
 
Tough out and stick to my guns. 0 0%
 
Go back to being a whore because love sucks 3 14.29%
 
N64 would have been PS1 if it used CDs 5 23.81%
 
Total:21

It's okay.

Last edited by d21lewis - on 14 November 2023

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Apologize and go home. You don't want to look back and realize you decided to stay and lost a lot which you held dear.

Explain what you've done, and talk to your wife and your ex.



Squash that shit with your wife IMMEDIATELY. If your ex is calling every day, she may feel threatened. That's a natural response. I'm sure there are dynamics to the situation that aren't mentioned in the OP, but based on what I'm seeing, your wife may be wanting you to scale waaaay back in your interactions with your ex wife. Which again, based on the limited amount of information I have to work with, seems reasonable. Your wife is trying to contact you, yes? Unless she really said/did some brutal stuff that hurt you, and you need bit of time simmer down, get in touch with her sooner than later.

 

Last edited by COKTOE - on 24 August 2019

- "If you have the heart of a true winner, you can always get more pissed off than some other asshole."

Fuck her right in the pussy

Edit: the ex obviously 

Last edited by kirby007 - on 24 August 2019

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Do whatever shadow just said but I'd call first before going back to new house.



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sethnintendo said:
Do whatever shadow just said but I'd call first before going back to new house.

Already home. Nobody here but me. 😢



d21lewis said:
sethnintendo said:
Do whatever shadow just said but I'd call first before going back to new house.

Already home. Nobody here but me. 😢

You've got us!.. Do we mean nothing to you!?



Go home. Apologize. Work out a long-term solution with your current lady so that your daughter is still in your life but in a way that respects boundaries that your currently lady finds reasonable. Given your history of infidelity, expect to compromise to her expectations more than for her to compromise to yours.

Communicate the agreement to your ex in no ambiguous terms and be damn sure to follow/enforce them. This could be a second chance that you never get again. You can throw away that chance whenever you want, but the configuration of events/circumstance resulting in a third chance may not be as entirely within your control.

In time, you may be able to negotiate a compromise closer to your favour, but that requires good behaviour on your part and trust from your current lady.

No matter how things turn out, I really hope you are happy with the outcome. I just think pride would be a very regrettable determinant for an undesirable outcome.



What you all fail to realise and lewis himself forgot is that he is the biggest player in town, he cant be tied down if he gets settled he will fuck up. So those saying he should work it out with his current lady, doesnt think of the fact what lewis will do next



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Sounds like you know what you need to do... just do it!