Yeah, why wouldnt it be?

I mean, it depends on what kind of person you are, but masturbating to porn(of random people) and feeling guilty about it is as "stupid" as thinking that a random lady is pretty when you spot one and feel guilty about it.

Whats important is that you love your girlfriend.The part about having urges that dosent involve cheating is simply animal instinct that everyone simply has and shouldnt feel ashamed.

I really thought this thread was going to take a different turn, to be quite honest.

It's bad to masturbate period, stop it.

Long answer- No

Short answer- No

You could always just masturbate to pictures of her. I'm sure she'd find that less disturbing!

There is nothing wrong with masturbating to porn while in a relationship.

But it's better if you do it together.

Read the Bible to understand.

He asked a question about relationships, not middle-eastern mythology.

Send pics.

Juuuust use a cantaloupe and pretend it's her. You know what? That's too close. Use a watermelon, and think about your neighbor fantasizing about your girlfriend while he has sex with a pumpkin. That way you're 2 steps removed from the act and she won't pick up on any vibes.

For some reason, I find this disturbing.