I stopped posting here consistently in 2012. Didn't really come back until this year. But thanks for the advice.

Well I mean from your post count... say if every post took you 5 mins to think up and create on here that would mean you spent a total of 40days on this site, 54 when you factor in 8 hours of sleep so I would say it's not an insignificant amount of time, surely it would have come up in conversation as to what you like to spend your time doing? that she would have been aware of your hobbies and hangouts, even those in the years prior to meeting the girl. Everyone I've dated has had a chuckle at a point at my time spent in WoW (2 years of game time) but at the same time.... because of that time I have friends all over Europe and have spent time in loads of countries which I never would have without that game.

NP with the advice btw, it's tough to do it but remember, you are living for the future, don't dwell in the past too much, especially not the bad times.

28.

We sold it and are splitting the profit. We close next week and that'll be it.

Met my wife in 2014 and got married in 2016 after a year of living together. Maybe nothing really changed but psychologically, there's this feeling that "you can't just breakup" if something goes wrong. You feel more trapped. Not to mention people seeing how happy you are and wanting to either ruin the relationship or be part of the relationship (if you know what I mean).

But the good far outweighs the bad. A good marriage is like hanging out with your closest friend who also touches your penis. Can't see myself ever being single again, even though I'm in the doghouse a couple of times a year for no apparent reason.

I'm listening. 

I don't what to say to you SNESboy my boy. If you want some escapism come to Amsterdam for a drug-fuelled, self-destructive petty spree, it should be fun.

Edit: No red light district, though. That's nasty, man.