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If things keep going to wrong in your life it's probably you who are the problem. I know first-hand how destructive anxiety-issues can be, but i know where the problem is and that is not society at large



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BraLoD said:

I saw that stealth edit

Fear of backlash often prevents me from saying everything I feel.



Best case scenario move to ohio with your family and enjoy the perks



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I have no friends and no social circles in real life since the age of 13, many years of no friends and no social circles. I am an idiot and I believed I could make it in the world on my own and I did not want anyone to be part of my world. I would make excuses of not want to meet up or drive people away by not saying hello or goodbye to them. I like to say it was due to my ADHD or Autism but I was just a jerk and enjoyed being alone in my room. I now regret the things that I have done and I do not want anyone to end up like me, a miserable sad person with no friends. On the surface I look normal but I have always been regarded as freak because of the way I acted towards others like I simply did not care.



BraLoD said:

Heh, the post was fine.

Strongly worded, but fine.

Going based on your vote of confidence then, I'll approximately re-post the original version:

How about we just change the name of the "NSFW" forum to Blatant Sexism? I think that would be clearer.



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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

Being yourself is never enough.

1. A man must prove his worth to others to gain social proof/acceptance to enhance social status.

2. A man has to go through barriers and hoops to attract women.

3. A man has to put in all the effort and risk humiliation of rejection and be labeled a creep or weirdo because he was brave enough to ask a woman out. 

4. Attraction is mainly based on physical looks, more attractive = more confidence = more social status.

5. No matter of game will change a woman's mind regardless of words, persistence or gifts.

6. People judge others mainly on their looks not personality or achievements in life.

7. The least attractive guys are the least popular members of society.

8. The most attractive men and most women are the most popular members of society.

9. Life will always be a struggle for unattractive men who may never attract a single woman in his life.

10. Self improvement does rarely changes things for an attractive man because he has failed the genetic lottery.

I hate the fairy tale lies that people keep pushing as advice and that life will work out for everyone in the end like a Disney Fairytale/Hollywood movie
What annoys me most is the useless advice like take a shower, be yourself, work on your attitude, looks do not matter, etc.
We all all know they are lying and they get hostile when they get called out on their lies. Pushing useless advice that is false and the condescending, sarcastic or arrogant tone really gets to me and burns my soul.

This stuff is important so you can be happy with yourself! Both from a biological and psychological standpoint

As cliche as it sounds, the only loving relationship you have the power to gaurantee is the one with yourself. And absolutely when you find confidence in yourself you attract more people. With confidence you won't get embarrassed and shamed by rejection, its actually one of the most trivial things we face in life. Stop trying to enhance your social status, you're not a video game character. Focus on the relationships which strengthen you and project the energy you want to receive from others. Be true to yourself so you actually find yourself around like minded people who you can make genuine connections with



Simple fix for younger guys: become a steroid pumped body builder and consume heaps of protein and become jacked and then you look hot to attract more chicks to score. Personality and saying the right thing can be easily worked on if you have time. Good if I was in my 20s and could afford the chemicals and protein to get jacked but I am in my 30s and past my prime. Face deteriorates with age and I have wrinkles now due to my age.
I am attempted to put up pictures of me to show how age has deteriorated my appearance but that would reveal my identity and I do not want to reveal the face of Dark_Lord. Dark_Lord is an enigma he must remain a mystery.



I think someone has been hanging out on too many incel forums. That community is mostly toxic.
I would like to note that there is nothing inherently wrong with having a dry spell. Women have them too. However, clinging onto this fantasy that life isn't going according to plan for, whether that be with women or at work, because of your looks, is ridiculous. There are plenty of successful ugly people. Sure, you will probably have to rule modelling out, but there are plenty of other careers.


There is so much more to attraction than what you listed. I for one, am attracted to people with some form of intellect. Nothing turns me off more than a moron.
That being said, I wouldn't identify as being a sapiosexual per se. Just so you know, a sapiosexual is someone that is attracted to intelligence.

You act like you are enlightened with your blue pill talk, however, you have been brainwashed by a bunch of sexist losers that aren't getting any. There is usually a reason why they aren't getting any, and that is because they are cunts. People who treat people like shit and pretend that they are nice and that society is at fault is ludicrous.

Friend zone is another word that losers use. There is nothing wrong with making friends. Not every woman has to sleep with you. You have complained about having no friends, yet this so-called friend zone is a dead end to you. You, like the other incels, have done this to yourself. Plenty of ugly men and ugly women are in relationships. Plenty of these people are your average Joe, with average pay.

Have you thought that maybe people don't want to date you because you are the way you are? Suck on those pills.



I hope Cobretti2 wakes up early tomorrow.

Wish I could help Dark_Lord, but people here have been trying for months, and can't seem to reach you in any way.

Hope things get better, and you can find more happiness in your life.



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