Jesus, how many thousand years old are you?
That's 2 posts in this thread where you've replied to me with little more than name calling / insults do you really have so little to add to the discussion at hand?
Being an advocate for the ideals of being a nice guy to the point where you're not willing to go after your own desires is commendable but you have to acknowledge that in doing so you are turning away from your inbuilt nature to pass on your dna to the next generation. Do you not think it would be better for humanity going forward to have your offspring in it so that they could follow in your footsteps, you see my point as to how "being a nice friendly guy who doesn't wanna get his leg over" doesn't work in terms of going on to the future. Survival of the fittest and best of humanity includes the most primal survival instinct of wanting to breed and pass on your genes.
Yeah, that's how it worked for humanity a few thousand years ago. Obviously people need to make kids if humanity is to survive, but... there exists a thing nowadays called a "society", and it allows us relative safety in knowing that humanity will live on without necessarily being disrespectful. And I mean, honestly, if humanity were to end because of people not having kids anymore, I'm not sure I'd be too bothered. Quite a peaceful end to a highly destructive race, and all that cliche stuff.
As for me personally, it makes sense I'd be turning away from those desires, because it's not in my nature at all. I've never felt compelled to get in a relationship, ever. I've never tried to flirt or had sex with a girl. Only time I ever even kissed a girl was just because she was drunk as hell and approached me, I didn't care so I let her do her thing. I'm not normal, and I know that - but I'm perfectly fine by myself. I feel like you're going to try to spin this into a "wow a 24-year-old virgin what a loser" argument, but trust me, I really don't care.
And despite being removed from this notion of having to find a girl, I can still have an opinion on such things, because that's how society works. As I said, all the healthy relationships I know started by healthy means, with people who were willing to open up with one another. Relationships built on unhealthy means are always unhealthy, and sooner or later they end in unhealthy ways. So, yeah, forgive me for believing that people can get together, and can "pass their DNA to the next generation", without being assholes.
Last edited by mZuzek - on 08 June 2019