LOL. First of all I'm gonna marry a dude so problem solved. Second, BraLod is right. Even in same sex marriages, the more masculine must simply submit to the more feminine one. There is no other way around this. Third, from my own experience, I can tell you that things like child support are created to lessen the burden of the state on having to provide for children regardless of whether the parents get along or not. I agree that the courts can always be improved but it is not this evil thing.