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Metroid33slayer said:
Metroid33slayer said:

HoloDust said:
As a general rule (with exceptions), men tend toward polygamy, women toward hypergamy. Allow no fault divorce, especially one that favours women when it comes to court rulings, and you get biology to do its thing...not to say some men don't benefit from it as well.

Yep hypergamy is what put me off women. For those of you that don't know hypergamy is a female biological instinct to garner as many resources from a man as possible thus ensuring her survival. So they want the wealthiest highest status mate they can get wether they are in a relationship, marriage or single doesn't matter because hypergamy has no end. So if a highest status male becomes availible and she knows she can snag him she will have no problem ditching you and monkey branching to him. Hypergamy is the complete opposite to loyalty that is why when a man loses his job the woman ditches him, this is because she doesn't have access to his resources anymore and her ingrained hypergamous instincts tell her to leave.

The takeaway from hypergamy is the brutal truth that women only love men as long as the man is providing benefits, in other words women don't love men for who they are, they only love what men do for them. You can deny it if you don't like the truth but hypergamy is a scientific biological fact because in the past before civillisation if a woman paired up with an incompetent mate with no resources then she and her children would literally die.

If we're going off of the scientific consensus about hypergamy then my understanding is if goes both ways. Women want men who are higher in social standing, men want women that are more attractive than they are. Wouldn't this then lead to the brutal truth that men only love women as long as they are hot?



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Torillian said:
Metroid33slayer said:
Metroid33slayer said:

If we're going off of the scientific consensus about hypergamy then my understanding is if goes both ways. Women want men who are higher in social standing, men want women that are more attractive than they are. Wouldn't this then lead to the brutal truth that men only love women as long as they are hot?

men are attracted to younger, prettier women that is true but a man's love is sacrificial, being a provider and protector is selfless, it is a bad deal but the man takes it anyway, he could just keep his resources to himself but instead he hands it over to a woman. A woman's love is transactional or selfish, she doesn't sacrifice anything, she's only with the man because he provides her with a higher standard of living. Consider this do you think men would allow their wives to freeze to death in the water after the titanic sank while they rowed to safety, no that is the last thing a man would want, he wouldn't be able to live with the shame and guilt. A man would die for his wife but a woman wouldn't do the same for her husband under any circumstances because their love isn't sacrificial. This explains it better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iukY27Erzbk



Metroid33slayer said:
Torillian said:

If we're going off of the scientific consensus about hypergamy then my understanding is if goes both ways. Women want men who are higher in social standing, men want women that are more attractive than they are. Wouldn't this then lead to the brutal truth that men only love women as long as they are hot?

men are attracted to younger, prettier women that is true but a man's love is sacrificial, being a provider and protector is selfless, it is a bad deal but the man takes it anyway, he could just keep his resources to himself but instead he hands it over to a woman. A woman's love is transactional or selfish, she doesn't sacrifice anything, she's only with the man because he provides her with a higher standard of living. Consider this do you think men would allow their wives to freeze to death in the water after the titanic sank while they rowed to safety, no that is the last thing a man would want, he wouldn't be able to live with the shame and guilt. A man would die for his wife but a woman wouldn't do the same for her husband under any circumstances because their love isn't sacrificial. This explains it better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iukY27Erzbk

So when you were saying that it's a "scientific biological fact" what are you basing that off of? Because when someone says that I expect to see a scientific study, a review of the available literature, y'know....sciencey shit. What I don't expect is a youtube video who doesn't back up any of his claims beyond "you all know it's true right?" based off a single web article on the different forms of love ancient Greeks had words for. 



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Ka-pi96 said:
Metroid33slayer said:

That is straight up slavery, there is no other way to spin it. Being forced to work while someone else steals your labor and takes home your wages at the point of a gun is slavery.

Nope. That's called tax.

But the tax you pay funds the infrastructure, utilities, police, emergency services, education, public buildings and institutions etc that you use so you are least getting something back.



Torillian said:
Metroid33slayer said:

So when you were saying that it's a "scientific biological fact" what are you basing that off of? Because when someone says that I expect to see a scientific study, a review of the available literature, y'know....sciencey shit. What I don't expect is a youtube video who doesn't back up any of his claims beyond "you all know it's true right?" based off a single web article on the different forms of love ancient Greeks had words for. 

Well hypergamy is an evolutionary instinct that is indisputable. Men are the sacrificial sex, i mean observable reality should make that patently clear. Just look at youtbe video's of everyday heroes risking their lives to save others, they're 99% men. Men act quickly regardless of danger to help the victim of an accident where as the women stand there doing nothing or run away in distress, they are risk averse and will prioritise their safety before anyone else's except maybe that of their childs and even that's not guaranteed.



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Torillian said:
Metroid33slayer said:

So when you were saying that it's a "scientific biological fact" what are you basing that off of? Because when someone says that I expect to see a scientific study, a review of the available literature, y'know....sciencey shit. What I don't expect is a youtube video who doesn't back up any of his claims beyond "you all know it's true right?" based off a single web article on the different forms of love ancient Greeks had words for. 

I remember seeing studies that showed a mans social economic performance was his greatest attraction for a woman but this was years ago and in this gynocentric society the leftist media is not going to reveal data that show women to be shallow goldiggers because it might hurt their feelings. Here's a couple of video's, now the commentator is mgtow so he doesn't rate women too highly but he is referencing articles based on legit studies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61KlTKvzRGg&t=47s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyX1neASSr4

Last edited by Metroid33slayer - on 29 April 2019

Metroid33slayer said:
Torillian said:

So when you were saying that it's a "scientific biological fact" what are you basing that off of? Because when someone says that I expect to see a scientific study, a review of the available literature, y'know....sciencey shit. What I don't expect is a youtube video who doesn't back up any of his claims beyond "you all know it's true right?" based off a single web article on the different forms of love ancient Greeks had words for. 

I remember seeing studies that showed a mans social economic performance was his greatest attraction for a woman but this was years ago and in this gynocentric society the leftist media is not going to reveal data that show women to be shallow goldiggers because it might hurt their feelings. Here's a couple of video's, now the commentator is mgtow so he doesn't rate women too highly but he is referencing articles based on legit studies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61KlTKvzRGg&t=47s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyX1neASSr4

You had to make it political.....  The truth is you get what you look for.  I do not know what type of women you meet but the ones I have met are the rid or die type.  Meaning they would kill for you no matter how much money or status you have.  They would lay down their lives for you and care for you if you came up broken beyond belief. The Truth is, if you are a shallow person you probably attract the same type of person.  You will walk around believing you are this great person but in reality you are just as shallow as the person you chose to live with.

Either way, those videos are a joke.  Some hurt bastard trying to paint a broad stroke on every woman with nothing more behind it then a pity train looking for others in the same place.



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this is so....therapeutic...

I wonder if my role models: Jeff Bezos, Tiger Woods, POTUS knows any of this...?



Machiavellian said:
Metroid33slayer said:

You had to make it political.....  The truth is you get what you look for.  I do not know what type of women you meet but the ones I have met are the rid or die type.  Meaning they would kill for you no matter how much money or status you have.  They would lay down their lives for you and care for you if you came up broken beyond belief. The Truth is, if you are a shallow person you probably attract the same type of person.  You will walk around believing you are this great person but in reality you are just as shallow as the person you chose to live with.

Either way, those videos are a joke.  Some hurt bastard trying to paint a broad stroke on every woman with nothing more behind it then a pity train looking for others in the same place.

Lets look at what the studies say. Women lose love and respect for men that earn less money than them and they bail when a man loses his job ie: when he stops bringing home the doe where as men don't abandon ship when their partner loses their job. What conclusion would you come too? Is the truth too hard to accept?

And of course hashtag not all because there are always exceptions to everything.

Last edited by Metroid33slayer - on 29 April 2019

People in the west are so screwed up in this, I swear. Marriage has become a problem for them and there are actual gold diggers just waiting to marry rich people and then divorce them. Honestly, if you're not all that religious, what's the point of marriage anyways? It always screws men over in the end.



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