Eye opening few video's of how badly the state treats men during divorce. I'm shocked, it's far worse than i thought. I also read a statistic somewhere that said 45% of male suicides was by men that lost everything in the corrupt family courts. Make sure you marry the right woman guys or avoid altogether, either way know the risks and watch your back.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkcVV5iWfIw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SDj5eO2pFR4&t=10s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rxh-V4HDTmg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcWY-PNKoRE&t=764s

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"went on a date last week with a single mom that had a brand new house working part time. i asked her how she affords it and she bragged that her ex has to pay house payment rest of his life as alimony on top of child support. men beware"

what the fuck?

Also consider the option of not getting married. Marriage isn't right for everyone, and not everyone is right for marriage. There's no shame in that. A lot of guys get themselves into trouble because they feel pressure to get married, but they're not really marriage material, and that really ought to just be fine. A lot of messy divorces would be avoided that way.

I will mention that your 45% statistic is bogus, however. There is no reliable data on the reasons for suicide. There's statistics for the age, race, and other demographics, statistics for mental illness comorbidities, and statistics for the methods used, but not for the reasons.

It's a very important decision in life, one should think about that very carefully, consider the person you are marrying and the consequences, ask yourself if you are prepared for that compromise, if you really want that, if you know enough the other person, if that will make you happy or a better person... because you may end commiting a painful mistake that will haunt you for the rest of your life. Some people have bad intentions behind a marriage, money for example. Personally, I like to be single.

Ummm yeah, that is why I will marry my lifelong partner, not someone I have known for a year or 2. Someone I have lived with for 2 or 3 years, and known for many years past that.

I married, ended up not working out but meh, life is life, people get knocked down every day, does that mean you spend your life hiding from roads ? Fuck no, go play on the white line, life is meant to be lived not huddled up afraid of failure.

Just read this comment to my nephew. Thank you! I tried to tell him not to be a pussy ass bitch and just play in the street. "But but Alchy my dad tol-" shut it. I'm not your dad bitch! At least that's what I should have told him.

I probably should go check on him now.  

Anyways, thanks for the inspiration! 

a christian discouraging people from getting married?

what kind of christian are you exactly? an intersectional christian?

Where I live marriage is only for tax reasons and it's not even that great in some cases. Getting rid of marriage seems like a good idea to me. Would love to see the corrupt multi billion dollar wedding industry collapse.