How about this:
Imagine your dad was a police officer who died protecting the church.
Imagine during the eulogy, the pastor briefly mentioned your dad, then spent most of his time talking about how well the church was doing, how the church staff was making more money than they ever had.
I get how people can view that was inappropriate but I dont see why. If the police officer died to protect the church that he cares about the person givign the eulogy can talk about what he protected and the strides that the church is making.I have some relatives and friends who are part of the military and they like it when Obama and now Trump talked about how well the country is doing because that's what their fighting to protect.