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kirby007 said:
Frankly dont operate unless it becomes a problem, a circumcised dick doesnt grow as big either

I'm gonna say no



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RaptorChrist said:
Weird. I'm American, and circumcision is standard practice. If anything, I would say you *should* have your son circumcised if only to prevent him from feeling ashamed of his penis. Women would be happier, too.

I'm American, too, and I find it weird how everyone is so anti-circumcision.

On one side, I understand that mutilating a child is barbaric.

On the other side, I don't remember any of it, myself, so I don't feel bad about being mutilated.

But the bigger thing is I am not ashamed of how it looks. Boosting self esteem isn't a bad thing.

I've heard girls literally talk in disgust about uncut penises. I get the science (self-lubing and probably feels better for both guy and girl), but I am pretty sure the look of it matters more to most girls (in the US, at least, probably different in other countries).

I don't see it as something for health benefits. I see it more as plastic surgery. Not the best thing, but not as bad as people on this thread are making it out to be.



danasider said:
RaptorChrist said:
Weird. I'm American, and circumcision is standard practice. If anything, I would say you *should* have your son circumcised if only to prevent him from feeling ashamed of his penis. Women would be happier, too.

I'm American, too, and I find it weird how everyone is so anti-circumcision.

On one side, I understand that mutilating a child is barbaric.

On the other side, I don't remember any of it, myself, so I don't feel bad about being mutilated.

But the bigger thing is I am not ashamed of how it looks. Boosting self esteem isn't a bad thing.

I've heard girls literally talk in disgust about uncut penises. I get the science (self-lubing and probably feels better for both guy and girl), but I am pretty sure the look of it matters more to most girls (in the US, at least, probably different in other countries).

I don't see it as something for health benefits. I see it more as plastic surgery. Not the best thing, but not as bad as people on this thread are making it out to be.

This is about where I come down as well (I'm also American).  American chicks, as I understand it, tend to think uncircumcised penises are weird.  I don't want my son to have to deal with that.

On the hand, it is cosmetic surgery without the patient's consent.  That seems morally wrong to me.  So, I'm pretty sure we aren't gonna do it.



VAMatt said:
danasider said:

I'm American, too, and I find it weird how everyone is so anti-circumcision.

On one side, I understand that mutilating a child is barbaric.

On the other side, I don't remember any of it, myself, so I don't feel bad about being mutilated.

But the bigger thing is I am not ashamed of how it looks. Boosting self esteem isn't a bad thing.

I've heard girls literally talk in disgust about uncut penises. I get the science (self-lubing and probably feels better for both guy and girl), but I am pretty sure the look of it matters more to most girls (in the US, at least, probably different in other countries).

I don't see it as something for health benefits. I see it more as plastic surgery. Not the best thing, but not as bad as people on this thread are making it out to be.

This is about where I come down as well (I'm also American).  American chicks, as I understand it, tend to think uncircumcised penises are weird.  I don't want my son to have to deal with that.

On the hand, it is cosmetic surgery without the patient's consent.  That seems morally wrong to me.  So, I'm pretty sure we aren't gonna do it.

Exactly. It feels wrong for that reason, but at the same time is it wrong for Americans to have a cultural excuse? Every time another culture has something, it's because of the culture. When it's American, it's evil. Btw, I am a minority so I am not a Trump toting bigot.

I just see that in this culture, guys are judged a certain way based off their penis (and girls are judged for a whole lot of other things so I am not saying guys are victims here). I think my kid would like a nicer looking penis over a lifetime of insecurity over how girls see uncircumcised penises, higher sensation be damned.



Circumcision is really necessary in a minority of cases. Most people don't need any operation at all, and amongst those that really need one, in most cases, it was my case too, frenulectomy is the right operation.



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RingoGaSuki said:
Fuck no.

Would you be okay with circumcising your daughter? Simply removing the labia in a cosmetic procedure which is largely the same as male circumcision in that it simply removes some sexual pleasure and "makes it easier to clean"? (a complete bullshit excuse) Of fucking course not. Why should a boy be treated any differently? Keep knives the fuck away from babies' genitals.

Can we not on this?  Female circumcision is completely different.  Circumcised males have a perfectly working penis, mild health benefits, and no evidence of any damage in sexual enjoyment.

Victims of genital mutilation often lose the entire clitoris, develop significant health issues, and have their sexual enjoyment significantly impaired.

I know it's easy to clump the two together, but one is a monstrous act designed to control and hurt women by stealing a whole aspect of their sexuality simply for the sake of doing so, and the other is harmless even if you are opposed to it.

Note:  This is aimed at a few people who have equated the two, not necessarily at this post (this one might be a bit more mild than others actually).

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I'd say ask the doctor if your son has excess foreskin, if so 'nip the tip'. If the foreskin 'normal' then I dont see the need as long as good hygiene is practiced/taught.



No, its a barbaric and antiquated practise. And what do you mean by your child will be ridiculed? Who will he be showing his penis to at a young age? That shouldn't be a problem until hes ready to have a girlfriend and most girls don't care much about it.



VAMatt said:

This is about where I come down as well (I'm also American).  American chicks, as I understand it, tend to think uncircumcised penises are weird.  I don't want my son to have to deal with that.

On the hand, it is cosmetic surgery without the patient's consent.  That seems morally wrong to me.  So, I'm pretty sure we aren't gonna do it.

I'm not american and uncut is the norm around here, but felt like trhowing my two cents on a couple of points.

First, as you mentioned only around 60% of newborns are being circuncised nowadays. Messages of bodily autonomy, acceptance, etc are on the high (even thoguh yes, mental disorders also are, as someone mentioned earlier). Current macro-politics aside, I would wager this is a trend that'll extend through his youth. So yeah, maybe he eventually gets poked fun at, but it'll probably be less likely and possibly tend to be less of a deal then than it would have been back in your puberty. And, I mean, if he's gonna have body image issues (really hope he doesn't of course, those suck : p), I doubt the simple lack of a little skin is really gonna be enough to change that.

Other than that, not to get into some slippery slope fallacy, but is this a kind of care that you could possibly extend to your general upbringin of him in any justifiable, healthy and sane way? Also, yeah, it is cosmetic. Do you feel like having your baby go through cosmetic surgery for something like this would transmit a messege, hell even a lesson you believe is right or healthy for you son, let alone the culture or general discourse?



If a girl would reject your son (which I doubt, I don’t think American girls are that shallow) later on because she doesn’t like the look of his thing, she probably doesn’t deserve him anyway so I wouldn’t be scared about that.

EDIT: Also, the easier to clean argument is strange. That’s like saying it’s better to pull out my teeth because I’ll have to brush them...

Last edited by S.Peelman - on 25 January 2019