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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
Other! 27 23.08%
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
o_O.Q said:
Carl said:
Is this an incel thread?

what is an incel?

In theory it means 'involuntary celibate', so this isn't really an incel thread (since it's more about voluntary celibatism). However, this does have a lot of similarities with the usual incel forums: blaming women for only wanting sex with hot guys and not with them.

Example of one of their forums: https://truecels.org/

Keep in mind that there's some quite extreme stuff in their, so visit at your own risk.

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Carl said:
o_O.Q said:

what is an incel?

I like the Urban Dictionary definition.

Incel, aka "involuntarily celibate", a person (usually male) who has a horrible personality and treats women like sexual objects and thinks his lack of a sex life comes from being "ugly" when its really just his blatant sexism and terrible attitude. incels have little to no self awareness; even when they see other "ugly" men with girlfriends, they consider these men to be tricksters who have somehow beat the system and can get women despite being cursed with unattractiveness (in other words, theyre respectful to women and women are attracted to their personalities, but incels cant comprehend such a phenomenon). they believe that women owe them sex, and many of the more extreme incels like to spend time in incel communities on the internet coming up with ways to make women have sex with them (often involving genocide of people of color, genocide of "Chads" (men who have sex), taking rights away from women, raping them, having sex with women's dead bodies, and other horrid, disgusting things. they cant understand that that is PRECISELY why women want nothing to do with them).

p0ison's definition is better.

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I have to laugh about all this feminism bullshit as excuse why it's such a hard life for men nowadays. Just because woman don't just stand in the kitchen for us nowadays doesn't mean that we can't have normal relationships nowadays without our female partner or other people telling us that we are just stupid men who have nothing to say anymore.

BraLoD said:
Sometimes women choose to make the man remain single

^This. I'm single because no woman will have me, not by choice. 

o_O.Q said:
Carl said:
Is this an incel thread?

what is an incel?

Others gave you a definition, but I think the better, and more truthful one, is just a guy who has standards that are WAY too high.  Delusional even.  Basically, a guy who is a 5 himself, but won't settle for anything under a 9.  Sadly, they mainly blame the women for not being into them, when they could have all the tail they wanted if they had more realistic standards.  I mean, you aren't ending up with a 9 or 10, unless you yourself are at least a 7 or 8, with a good personality.  Well, unless you got cash.

@ OP

Simple solution.  Date a shemale.  Body of a woman (well, except one part), but they understand what it was like to be a man at one point.  Or so I've heard.

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I'm married and it's mostly awesome. Hope I never go back to being single BUT I'd be fucking rich if I was single and I could come and go as I please if I didn't have to worry about someone else's happiness.

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Flilix said:

Probably because of low self-esteem and/or bad experiences in the past, but I voted for the pet project thing because it's the funniest option.

Yeah, I think it is generally a defense mechanism created because of their low self-esteem.  Pretty sad, really.  

I don't think that necessarily everyone should HAVE to be with someone else, and thus I understand someone feeling burnt trying to make it work with the opposite sex. That said, most of that article is pretty dumb. If you're having trouble finding someone for you, the problem either lies with you or how you're searching for that person.

Some men choose to remain single and give up on women 'cause they have got a time machine, and after 10 years with their wives, they decide to use the time machine to go back exactly the day before the knew their wife. ""kidding aside"", I think some do not want to lose their freedom, and be able to do whatever they want, and not be conditioned by anything or anyone. Others are not able to assume such responsibility, wife and children.

But believe me, it can be very hard the relationship with your wife when things start to go wrong, and kids are involved. You have to keep hard for the sake of your children, even if sometimes the instinct is to run away because assaulted by a feeling of suffocation and imprisonment, in every sense. They manage to trample your feelings like no one else can ever do.

”Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

Harriet Tubman.

The reasons are many, but these are probably the top 3:

* Homosexuality is probably the most common reason, traditionally.

* Immaturity/infantilism is probably the most common reason today. A lot of the single men I see are those who are still very childish and lacking assertiveness, lack inspiring traits, ambition, self-reliance, etc... While there's the occasional woman who will be interested in taking on the role a grown man's mother, this is probably not very common, and not healthy. I see the "women are only interested in money" excuse, but the acquisition of money is a very common side effect of the traits I mentioned. Even well-off guys are not getting women if they lack ambition; yet, even very poor guys who have these traits have little issue getting women. Most women I know are not going to be interested in guys who are significantly less well adjusted to adulthood; they are looking for lovers, not man-children to adopt. The giving up on women that these men do are largely a side effect on giving up on being an adult in general. They might join the ranks of MRAs and incels just to have an excuse.

* General creepiness, a lot of guys are just creepy and negative people. Not only do women generally avoid these sorts, but everyone does. These are the sort that usually fill the ranks of incels and MRAs. Generally nasty people.

* Low sex drive is a potential fourth reason, but honestly: I know of no one who falls into this category.


In short, the main reason for guys "rejecting" women is actually the other way around. (Homosexuality/non-sexuality aside) It's largely an excuse that they adopt in order to avoid the truth that natural selection has rejected them.

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