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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117
Cobretti2 on 16 January 2019
CladInShadows said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:
You absolutely could be at a point in your life where you’re really just not available. You might be so busy with what you’re doing that you haven’t got enough hours in the day as it is, and dating is going to be something you just don’t have time for unless it somehow falls right in your lap, and even then trying to fit a date in is going to be troublesome.

I see this excuse a lot, and I really wonder how much of it is accurate, or how much of it is just that...an excuse. The fact that we're spending time talking, writing, and debating on a forum dedicated to VIDEO GAMES (a hobby) means that we all have some amount of down time.  If you truly do not have enough hours in the day, I would think that you probably wouldn't have time to game, or at least amass hundreds and thousands of posts on a message board.

I think a lot of people oversell how busy they actually are.

At times in your life it can be true but not for 10 years lol.

Sometimes you just want to be alone away from the world when you want to focus or recharge

But overall you are right. Time is how we manage and the sacrifices we make.

I have two jobs, one official one self personal interest which hopefully one day becomes the only one.

I wake up 7am shower quickly then do my personal interests tasks. I get to my job by 10am. Leave 6-7pm. Then at 7-8pm I am doing my personal interest work. That takes up my time up to about 3-4am.  During periods of the day I come to this forum to unwind and read about games. It is almost 4am now here.

As for relationships. With my gf at the time now my wife. I worked a full time job and at the same time did full time study for my MBA. I sacrificed my weekends to go to classes and do assignments between 1am and 4am. After work I would catchup with my gf for 3-4 hours a day. It would have been just as easy to say you know what i CBFed seeing you. Lets just catch up Sunday. COuld have done my assignments earlier and slept by 12am.

 



 

 

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Dark_Lord_2008 on 16 January 2019

Failure to launch!
Life is too easy staying at home and home cooked meals.
There is no need to work hard to improve my life.
Gaming, TV, online, fitness and easy lifestyle.

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Immersiveunreality on 16 January 2019
SpokenTruth said:
Can you just come out as an incel already?

He has mental troubles and wrong views caused by those troubles, no need to beat him down more and also not usefull.



Cobretti2 on 16 January 2019
Immersiveunreality said:
SpokenTruth said:
Can you just come out as an incel already?

He has mental troubles and wrong views caused by those troubles, no need to beat him down more and also not usefull.

Agree there mate. I now we keep saying and he doesn't listen but he needs to see a Doctor and narrow down the causes.

No one is born to think negative like this. 



 

 

Dark_Lord_2008 on 16 January 2019

There is a point you realise you have absolutely no hope and just give up and accept the reality of your situation. More single guys and less available single women in most cities/towns and it is a simple mathematical equation where some guys just remain undateable regardless of what job they do or their personality. So many people do not apply logic and reasoning when it comes to dating and waste too much believing they have a chance when they are just wasting their time. Why settle for less when you are better off being alone?

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AngryLittleAlchemist on 17 January 2019
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I am lazy, I have no work ethic, no ambition, I do not see the point in improving my life because I enjoy doing nothing. I do not want to work hard, because I am lazy. I do not ask women out because I am too lazy. I want to win the lottery jack pot, because I am too lazy to work. Putting in effort, going out and making conversations and joining clubs all requires effort, but I am too lazy. My lame excuses and made up self diagnosed Autism/rare illness, I am lazy! I got exposed years ago online after complaining about not finding work after graduating from college, I did not really apply for work because I am lazy! I made excuse after excuse, story after story because I am lazy.

I know how addicting it can be to just wallow and trudge through your own misery, but you need to pull yourself out of the dumps. Romance isn’t the only aspect of life, despite how much the media makes it seem like it sometimes. You have your career, your family, your future family, your future pets, your friends, and even those acquaintances that you say hi to every once in a while. The “woe is me!” attitude is so easy succumb to, but when I hear the millions of other lethargic teenagers mumble the same words, I feel sick to my stomach. I was not made to be, as Eminem said, “thrown in with these gloomy lunatics”. If nobody loves me, I’ll love myself. And even loving myself gets a little hard at times, I know I’ll be a hell of a lot better at it than all those crushes were.

And ultimately, none of us know the future. I constantly tell myself I’m forever alone, so I can quell the relentless hope that lives and me and constantly expects something good to happen when I like someone, then drives my soul to anarchy when I get rejected. But deep down, I know that life is unpredictable. And somewhere deep down, you know it too.

What is this black text? it doesnt sound like it was written by him?



Cobretti2 on 17 January 2019
AngryLittleAlchemist said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I am lazy, I have no work ethic, no ambition, I do not see the point in improving my life because I enjoy doing nothing. I do not want to work hard, because I am lazy. I do not ask women out because I am too lazy. I want to win the lottery jack pot, because I am too lazy to work. Putting in effort, going out and making conversations and joining clubs all requires effort, but I am too lazy. My lame excuses and made up self diagnosed Autism/rare illness, I am lazy! I got exposed years ago online after complaining about not finding work after graduating from college, I did not really apply for work because I am lazy! I made excuse after excuse, story after story because I am lazy.

I know how addicting it can be to just wallow and trudge through your own misery, but you need to pull yourself out of the dumps. Romance isn’t the only aspect of life, despite how much the media makes it seem like it sometimes. You have your career, your family, your future family, your future pets, your friends, and even those acquaintances that you say hi to every once in a while. The “woe is me!” attitude is so easy succumb to, but when I hear the millions of other lethargic teenagers mumble the same words, I feel sick to my stomach. I was not made to be, as Eminem said, “thrown in with these gloomy lunatics”. If nobody loves me, I’ll love myself. And even loving myself gets a little hard at times, I know I’ll be a hell of a lot better at it than all those crushes were.

And ultimately, none of us know the future. I constantly tell myself I’m forever alone, so I can quell the relentless hope that lives and me and constantly expects something good to happen when I like someone, then drives my soul to anarchy when I get rejected. But deep down, I know that life is unpredictable. And somewhere deep down, you know it too.

What is this black text? it doesnt sound like it was written by him?

Lol i don't know if you haven't noticed but he been copying shit from quora. He linked a few bits from there earlier.

 

https://www.quora.com/search?q=%22I+know+how+addicting+it+can+be+to+just+wallow%22



 

 

AngryLittleAlchemist on 17 January 2019
Cobretti2 said:
AngryLittleAlchemist said:

What is this black text? it doesnt sound like it was written by him?

Lol i don't know if you haven't noticed but he been copying shit from quora. He linked a few bits from there earlier.

 

https://www.quora.com/search?q=%22I+know+how+addicting+it+can+be+to+just+wallow%22

So is he a troll, citing a quora answer or is that just him on quora too?



Cobretti2 on 17 January 2019
AngryLittleAlchemist said:
Cobretti2 said:

Lol i don't know if you haven't noticed but he been copying shit from quora. He linked a few bits from there earlier.

 

https://www.quora.com/search?q=%22I+know+how+addicting+it+can+be+to+just+wallow%22

So is he a troll, citing a quora answer or is that just him on quora too?

well the come from different usernames.

The thing we don't know is if he just reading this shit and agreeing with it as his world view.

The only consistencies I have found on here and the sites he linked us and the ones i found on google spanning 8 years is:

He claims to have a commerce degree, live in Perth, be autistic (self-diagnosed), and lazy.

Surely he not trolling for 8 years the same thing?

 



 

 

Cobretti2 on 17 January 2019

Interesting read on whirlpool for young Aussies on what not to do when looking for work lol

All I will say is Dark is one unique individual lol.



user RobMate

https://www.google.com/search?q=RobMate+whirlpool+site:forums.whirlpool.net.au