Man I read all that.

Fuck seriously, dude. I can see why you cannot land a job.

1. You fuck up your resume

2. Attitude

3. A commerce degree is decent degree that most people get decent work out off yet you seem not to apply for the right jobs

4. You could have done engineering if you wanted to later. even now you can. Hell you can study part time whilst you work, so you gaining experience.

5. Back then all entry level jobs in an office paid shit. I was on $12bux an hour part time.  Entry level office jobs pay about 50-60k now (well in Melb). My first job in Melb I got paid peanuts because I wanted to get my foot in the door as I knew no one. Then It has skyrocketed form there in 7 years. Doubled in fact.

Which one are you?

https://graduations.curtin.edu.au/verification/?page=1

I am not given up my Real Identity online.

Other than book you a doctor in perth, what do you think i am going to do with your identity lol

I get to see doctors for free on Medicare. I do not want to see a doctor.

Basically it comes down to THIS sort of scenario which this dude nails perfectly. Never even thought something like this would end up being stressful but it ACTUALLY is the day I decided to move in with my girlfriend. Things were great when we were going out cuz I could just do the shit I wanted to on my own time. Now with her around like practically 24/7 even on muy off time well yeah, I can see why guys would get bothered....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XP7WnpBOOwY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0mcHxxodsA

https://www.quora.com/Why-dont-guys-pursue-women-anymore

Declining opportunity: Given the fact that marriage is almost always the man’s decision, men who seem like marriage material are rarely single after 30; they have tied the knot and have a kid or two.

Boys will be boys: Men like to have fun, women do as well but men don’t have a biological clock, a lot (I would say most) women do. It’s not fair but life isn't fair.

The shrinking world and the western women: In today's world its to easier to go to another country and find a woman that fits you versus changing yourself to fit a modern type woman in your neighbourhood. Women in general don’t have this option as most of the men of the world are a lot more traditional than western men (and that is putting it politely).

 The Screw it Phenomena: Finally a lot of guys just don’t want to bother. I was raised to hold a chair, rise when a woman comes to the table, open doors for women, walk on the outside, etc. When I see headlines like this, I just say screw this.

Because we’ve simply given up. But don’t get me wrong, we still pursue because we’re still checking them out and try to connect with them like normal human beings. After all, it’s human nature. But when it comes to actually asking a girl out, you can tell from your own experience whether this girl is really worth it or not. 

So the real question is, why are guys afraid of approaching women?

It’s because most young women are extremely immature, and this is not my personal opinion or bias, it’s fact. I’ve been rejected a lot during my single years and it still happens from time to time so most guys, including me, stopped doing it so we could save ourselves the humiliation and awkwardness.

-banned by the-pi-guy-

SpokenTruth nailed it with this one! 100% agreed! Haha, this is a comical version of what women are on a whole. Seriously, all you need is a job and personality. Sure, not being fat and a total slob helps out a lot for the above average kind of girls, but hey...generally a lot of this is so over-exaggerated it's not funny.

I find that girls will talk to just about anybody but will avoid the guy that is pushing too strongly when the dude is not "getting" the signals to back off when getting too pushy. I see this all the time...average guys playing it around the hot girls like they own it. But I can see what they can't. They just aren't into you lol. When I see this, it can be cringey.

So what is the point of this thread?

You don't want to pursue a woman
You don't want to work
You don't want to do anything

How can you move forward in life if you standing still?

I rarely talk to anyone, I have always been that weird guy that does not like to talk to people.
I have my headphones on to shut the world out and it says do not talk to me, do not approach me.
At the gym I have my head phones on and do my cardio machines: rowing, stair master, exercise bike and treadmill. I am not strong enough to bother with weights and well my shoulder is not up for weight sessions. Chronic shoulder pain is so annoying.
Now I just cycle my bicycle and run outside instead of being bored at the gym.
The wind resistance, changing terrain, variable weather conditions and traffic all make exercising more enjoyable and challenging than a treadmill, exercise bike or a stair master.

Being more sociable is a skill I was not born with because I am an introvert that lives prefers living inside my own world.
I can analyse and think about things a lot, I am indecisive and I procrastinate.