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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

Dark_Lord_2008 said:

Six months out of a relationship.

Darn I do not have any of the six sixes that women want!

Wait... Does that mean you've been in a relationship recently??



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I have none of the six sixes that actually matter! The final one should be a six million dollar penthouse or yacht or some other material rubbish that women want!

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 14 January 2019

Dude. One thing that you need to admit to yourself is that you have a very warped mental image of women.

You say that you have problems with social situations, and reading people. Don't forget that that applies to your ability to read women as well, so don't make too many paranoid guesses about what women want. In fact, don't make any paranoid guesses about what women want.

Maybe pick up a hobby where you interact with many women, and see for yourself how they are in reality.

Also because of this quote " Being Autistic I only like predictable situations and rigid routines of eating the same meals every day for the entirety of my life. Human females do not like rigid routine and they are too unpredictable for simple guys with Autism like me!"
Are you sure you even want a relationship with a woman if that's how you feel?



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Lack of facial symmetry, poor bone structure, weak jawline, high forehead, receding hairline, feminine features. Normal functioning guys that do not look good enough struggle to attract female partners.
Being an incel is not an Autistic thing, there are plenty of normal functioning guys that lost the genetic lottery of life.
I hate hearing cliche garbage advice like: "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" , "work on yourself and wait for love to happen", "there is someone for everyone", etc. This does not change the fact that some males are destined to become incels and never attract a single female in their entire life despite desiring them. There are plenty of successful guys that can not ever attract women in their lives. It is just the way it is.



Dark_Lord_2008 said:
Lack of facial symmetry, poor bone structure, weak jawline, high forehead, receding hairline, feminine features. Normal functioning guys that do not look good enough struggle to attract female partners.
Being an incel is not an Autistic thing, there are plenty of normal functioning guys that lost the genetic lottery of life.
I hate hearing cliche garbage advice like: "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" , "work on yourself and wait for love to happen", "there is someone for everyone", etc. This does not change the fact that some males are destined to become incels and never attract a single female in their entire life despite desiring them. There are plenty of successful guys that can not ever attract women in their lives. It is just the way it is.

There are also plenty of guys that are similar to what you described that HAVE attracted women.



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Social maladjustment: there are people who for various reasons (such as a phobia or just lack of social skills) aren’t able to express their attraction to others, or can’t do it in a way that’s appealing enough to meet with any success. They may also have some more intractable disadvantages on the dating scene (such as a disability, or not having conventionally attractive facial or body proportions, or low social status for reasons outside their control, or living in a country with a very skewed gender ratio); in some cases these could leave someone perpetually single even if they do everything right. But more often, the sufferer is burdened with psychological barriers to dating (including body dysmorphia, i.e. the person believes they are incredibly ugly or deformed when they actually look normal).

I have excluded some information and pushes the line that I have never been with any woman. I did not mention any bad experiences that made me feel inadequate and less of a man like being with hookers that I felt was self-destructive and added no value and some meet ups with women I met from online back in my younger days when chatting on Yahoo chat/MySpace/Plenty of Fish. Sad tale of inadequacy and the inability to form friendships and cope with rejection/failure in life due to my Autism and mental health issues. It was the inability to gain employment after being graduating college and becoming unemployable that sent me on a downward spiral and stuck in a black hole.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 14 January 2019

SpokenTruth said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:
The Six Sixes:
Six-pack abs.
Six feet tall.
Six inches below the belt.
Six-figure salary.
Six hundred horsepower car.
Six months out of a relationship.

Darn I do not have any of the six sixes that women want!

This.  This is why no woman will talk to you.  You pigeonhole them all into something most of them are not.  I mean do you honestly believe any of that bullshit?  Where did you even come up with this?  Do all you talk to are incels?

I copied the six sixes from a forum and it is a joke post about the shallowness of modern society. The problem with this world is people take life too seriously. Unlike the good old days people had a sense of humour, now they have lost their humour because of PC nonsense. I much prefer 1960s to 1990s comedy to modern comedy. Modern comedy is not funny at all compared to the classics like M.A.S.H. Monty Python, Faulty Towers, Seinfeld. 



Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I copied the six sixes from a forum and it is a joke post about the shallowness of modern society. The problem with this world is people take life too seriously. Unlike the good old days people had a sense of humour, now they have lost their humour because of PC nonsense. I much prefer 1960s to 1990s comedy to modern comedy. Modern comedy is not funny at all compared to the classics like M.A.S.H. Monty Python, Faulty Towers, Seinfeld. 

Um, if you made a joke post and it was similar enough to the things you've previously been posting in complete seriousness that people assumed it was another serious post, you might want to ask yourself why that was.



Lol i'm surprised you haven't quoted this yet:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Five_Cs_of_Singapore



 

 

KungKras said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:
Lack of facial symmetry, poor bone structure, weak jawline, high forehead, receding hairline, feminine features. Normal functioning guys that do not look good enough struggle to attract female partners.
Being an incel is not an Autistic thing, there are plenty of normal functioning guys that lost the genetic lottery of life.
I hate hearing cliche garbage advice like: "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" , "work on yourself and wait for love to happen", "there is someone for everyone", etc. This does not change the fact that some males are destined to become incels and never attract a single female in their entire life despite desiring them. There are plenty of successful guys that can not ever attract women in their lives. It is just the way it is.

There are also plenty of guys that are similar to what you described that HAVE attracted women.

Surprised he didn't throw in fat in there lol.

The best thing about having a wife is the free access you get to her friends and being able to observe them interact without them feeling threatened that a male has invaded their inner sanctum. They all vary in looks and intelligence.

The airheads who are annoying and barely able to hold a conversation seem to want all muscle guys where as the ones with good jobs and an education just want someone who can hold a job and a conversation. Their looks really don't play too much into their choice.

What he doesn't get is women that are looking for serious relationships generally find hard to find love too. It isn't an autistic only problem. This is mainly because there are still too many immature men who won't grow up and think they are 20 in their 40s who just want a one night stand with anything that opens their legs rather than be with a woman they find intimidating because she is as successful as him.

Half the shit he write, can be applied to all introverts. Are all introverts autistic? There is a couple guys on here who have mild autism who have given their accounts and honestly they are at least looking on the positive and trying. The issue is Dark just wants to blame something because it is easy to blame something. He knows that, he just does not want to change. We all fear and hate change, humans are creatures of comfort.