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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

I would only consider women that are the same age as me or older. I am not going to go for women say under 30 and look like an idiot. I am fit and I expect the women would be fit too.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 11 January 2019

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It has less to do with giving up on women and more to do with just giving up on love. All sexual orientations have their crazies and the wrong relationship can ruin someone's life (or at the very least cripple a lifestyle they worked hard to get to).

You can only have so many wrong ones before you realize that no one is better than a wrong one. My marraige is healthy, but if for whatever reason it were to go south I would opt to remain single over enter another relationship.



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I never have to worry about divorce and I never wanted to ever have children. My life is not that bad remaining in the same position of being Forever Alone.

Some people have absolutely no chance at all. I am one of those people that never ever had a chance. I will do nothing because coping strategies as I have researched for people like me do not work and change nothing to the status of being Forever Alone.

Most of us Autistics, do not accept change and we are fixed in our rigid routines.

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I have given up and accepted it now. I have realised I have been proven right in my decision made 20 years ago. My intuition and insight was brilliant and I know my ability to predict, analyse every single scenario lead me to believe I had no chance ever and no point in trying. Knowing is better than trying.

So I've heard that a 40 year old male virgin automatically becomes a wizard. As I am approaching this glorious transformation I have some questions that I would like to clear out.

Will I wake up on my birthday with a fully grown long white beard or should I start growing it myself? My beard always turned out scrawny and patchy so I am really looking forward to a nice beard.

Will the appropriate attire be provided (ie. robes and pointy hats) or should i break out my sewing machine? If latter than I would need some specification for the attire. And last but not least. Will my wand turn into wood, and will it be like a morning wood or an all around 24/7 wood?

But seriously I think that I managed to not attract female attention for so long because I always tended to blame myself for everything, feel shame for the things I blame myself about and feel frustration for feeling shame. In general I am not a type of person that I myself would like to hang around with and that's probably why no female of any species sees me as an appropriate partner. 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 11 January 2019

Cobretti2 said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I have been and tried therapy, seen psychologists and psychiatrists, been on medications for 20 years on/off and it did not change anything. It does not change the fact that I do not fit into social situations, feel like an outsider and avoiding social situations is the only way to make the fear go away.
Non-Autistic do not understand how hard life is with Autism, your advice only applies for people that do not have Autism.
Autism can not be cured and there is not much that can be done for us.

I sense/know that women do not want anything to do with me, without saying a word. I do not want to be rejected and boost random female's ego. Why waste time being rejected when you have no chance at all? I have the right to remain silent. 

I am pretty sure a couple people here have said they have some sort of autism and are trying or have managed. The problem is no one doubts that you have some form of autism, but you seem not to have even changed from 8 years ago when you wrote a similar topic on that other website. It takes baby steps to change.

Also what kind of women are you aiming for? You can't aim for a 10 and expect not to get rejected. You need to set a realistic benchmark. At the end of the day looks fade, it is the personality that will matter. I know girls that were a 10+ in primary/high school, the girl everyone wanted. 20 years later they look worst than the average looking girls in that time period. Look beyond the skin and find somsene you click with rather then superficial things you think a woman should be. 

Someone healthy and smart i find far more important than looks, i have been together with some beauty's that just werent saying anything usefull and did not care about things i cared about and that grows tiring fast and i had one less pretty girl that totally took my heart because of how wellspoken and optimistic she was.

I also like someone to challenge me and not always agree with everything i say.



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Immersiveunreality said:

Someone healthy and smart i find far more important than looks, i have been together with some beauty's that just werent saying anything usefull and did not care about things i cared about and that grows tiring fast and i had one less pretty girl that totally took my heart because of how wellspoken and optimistic she was.

I also like someone to challenge me and not always agree with everything i say.

Exactly my point. 

If I was in his situation I would give everyone a chance. You need to find someone you click with not some trophy wife lol.



 

 

I come across as arrogant, pompous, grumpy, short tempered and self centred. I respectfully disagree with most of the advice on here because it is too much hard work/effort and I do not have the energy to do all those things and social interactions are draining for extreme introverts like me! Unless you have high levels of stress and high levels of anxiety associated with being Autistic you will never understand! Autistic people are odd, weird, eccentric, anti-social, lack emotions, we always like being right and we can not see others point of views because of our lack of empathy. Empathy and emotions are not something you can learn, they come naturally to Non-Autistic people. 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 12 January 2019

Cobretti2 said:
WessleWoggle said:
I am a literal manchild but I can go into a bar, you can point at any women, and I can talk them into bed within 24 hours without even using pick up art.

Didn't you come out on the forum as a troll like yesterday? back to your old ways?

This is not a lie. Like the other dude said, I'm a wizard. I have an in depth knowledge of pick up art, pick up science, the workings of comedy and irony, philosophy, magick, tantra etc I am an expert in nuerolingistic programming, I know hypnosis tricks, and I'm also one of the most genuine person people ever get to meet in the real word. If you've never met someone who doesn't lie to the best of their ability, and can hide their negative emotions while only outwardly expressing their happy, confident, endearing self, you would understand why I can talk most women into bed very easily. I am a troll, but I also said I'd give clear indication as to when I'm trolling from now on. Here's the thing, if you pointed at a girl in a relationship, I wouldn't pursue it. If you pointed at a degenerate, I would not do it etc

If any of you want to learn to bed chicks as quick as I can, I have three tips:

Learn tantra and energy working with your chakras systems with the power of magick so you can turn a girl on just by looking in her eyes.

Cut the bullshit, don't lie, but pick your wording carefully and know when to hold your tongue

Dont be afraid to initiate physical contact of some sort, this is the key to getting close to a girl and then having sex with her 30 minutes later in your car



WessleWoggle said:
Cobretti2 said:

Didn't you come out on the forum as a troll like yesterday? back to your old ways?

This is not a lie. Like the other dude said, I'm a wizard. I have an in depth knowledge of pick up art, pick up science, the workings of comedy and irony, philosophy, magick, tantra etc I am an expert in nuerolingistic programming, I know hypnosis tricks, and I'm also one of the most genuine person people ever get to meet in the real word. If you've never met someone who doesn't lie to the best of their ability, and can hide their negative emotions while only outwardly expressing their happy, confident, endearing self, you would understand why I can talk most women into bed very easily. I am a troll, but I also said I'd give clear indication as to when I'm trolling from now on. Here's the thing, if you pointed at a girl in a relationship, I wouldn't pursue it. If you pointed at a degenerate, I would not do it etc

If any of you want to learn to bed chicks as quick as I can, I have three tips:

Learn tantra and energy working with your chakras systems with the power of magick so you can turn a girl on just by looking in her eyes.

Cut the bullshit, don't lie, but pick your wording carefully and know when to hold your tongue

Dont be afraid to initiate physical contact of some sort, this is the key to getting close to a girl and then having sex with her 30 minutes later in your car

You forgot to mention being an expert in pseudoscience :p