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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

Look man I had girls my whole life since my teens years, always had luck with women and I had the love of my life during 3.2 years, we were to marry and start life when she changed her mind and we ended our relationship.

I decided to stay single for a while & have been since April, what I can tell to you is that being single is so much better.

Relationships aren't worth it because love is temporary these days, with today technology you can meet so many new people that attach yourself to someone isn't worth it anymore, people might disagree but that's the hard truth, many of my friends have betrayed their girlfriends because they were afraid to end the relationship even though they didn't love them anymore, they were afraid because they were comfortable with that person, not because they loved them.

Look guys, have Sex, date girls but don't put yourself into a relationship, it's cool at 1st but then the problems start coming your way & you'll remember this post.



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Low self self esteem/low confidence and bad experiences in the past. Constant rejection can destroy a man's fragile ego. End up on 4chan and reddit complaining to the world how life is so unfair and how you feel empty, lonely and hopeless. I accept my position as being permanent and did not approach women ever again after a few rejections in high school. If only I had a prom date and my life may have turned out different. I reflect on my life during my 20s, 30s and in a  few years time I will be into my 40s. 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 01 December 2018

bananaking21 said:
Lol wtf

"Does not want to become a woman's pet project"? Wtf is that shit. If some people believe nonsense like that it's clear how immature they are, and why women are not interested in them, hence the "chose to be alone".

What the hell are these reasons, "don't want to conform to society"?, "Evil gender"? What the hell am I reading a 12 year olds reasons why he picks on a girl when he secretly has a crush on her?

Pretty much my thoughts when I started reading this....



Finance. Today it is much more expensive to get married and raise children, it is not hard to see more and more people are choosing to be single when you have to work more and get paid in a fiat currencies that ALWAYS lose value/purchasing power as time passes.



Is this an incel thread?



                            

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Firstly, what the fuck?
Secondly, some men choose to remain single and "give up on women" because some men aren't interested in relationships. Yes, that happens. Whoever wrote that article is probably bitter about their failed relationships. 



If you require alcohol to have fun, then you have a problem

I don't think anyone should "chose to give up." However, the old script that you have to be married or in a relationship to be content with your life needs to die already. People who seem to be arguing with their significant other half the time ask me when I'm going to get married and it just feels silly. It's more like, "when are you going to get a divorce," to be honest.

A friend of mine has this mentality where he has to be in a relationship and he's always looking forward to marriage. He's depressed when it doesn't work out, he's morose when he's alone, but then when he's in a relationship, he seems to cycle constantly between euphoria and emotional exhaustion. With so many people bound to unhappy relationships, it's easy to see why rushing into commitments isn't necessarily a good life choice.

If it happens, then it happens. If it doesn't, then it doesn't. Either way should be fine. I think it's best to keep an open mind.



CuCabeludo said:

Finance. Today it is much more expensive to get married and raise children, it is not hard to see more and more people are choosing to be single when you have to work more and get paid in a fiat currencies that ALWAYS lose value/purchasing power as time passes.

eh I made roughly 2000 Euro profit after my wedding was over and being married means that I have to pay less in taxes.
Also it's cheaper to live with someone else since you can split the rent. And with the addition of your partner's wage you can buy more expensive stuff for your home.

The point about raising children is true, but I think that's optional.



Carl said:
Is this an incel thread?

what is an incel?



o_O.Q said:
Carl said:
Is this an incel thread?

what is an incel?

A loser.