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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

I read and believe internet theories that are darkness feed my hopeless situation in life. I have accepted I never had a chance at dating and I continue to cry in my room at night and write about my lonely, sad, empty, meaningless life.

Social media and online dating has made life easier for modern women and harder for modern men. Women get heaps of responses on dating sites and validation and approval on social media. The majority of guys get little or no response on social media and no responses on online dating sites because they are not Alpha males. Only the top 20% of guys get plenty of messages on dating sites, validation and approval on social media because they are Alpha males!

I do not have social media or online dating accounts. I do not want to waste time on anything that adds no value to my life because I am a bottom 80% low value guy, not a top 20% high value guy. There are winners and losers in life and I have always been in the loser category because the kids at school said so and they were right! I have not moved on from high school and 20 years have gone by, it destroyed my life!



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Dark_Lord_2008 said:
online dating has made life easier for modern women and harder for modern men.

Really?  It sure as hell made it easier for me.



I need to find those mystical women that make the first move, just for curiosity sake because it sounds incredible.



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Metallox said:
I need to find those mystical women that make the first move, just for curiosity sake because it sounds incredible.

I have never seen a woman make the first move in my life.

They don't need to, since the societal expectation is on men to do that.  Why put yourself out there and risk rejection when you don't have to?



curl-6 said:
Metallox said:
I need to find those mystical women that make the first move, just for curiosity sake because it sounds incredible.

I have never seen a woman make the first move in my life.

They don't need to, since the societal expectation is on men to do that.  Why put yourself out there and risk rejection when you don't have to?

Define first move.

In middle school I got asked out by a girl by note and we fake dated.

Nowadays girls do the subtle first move of course. For example dancing in a club and you look over at a girl and receive eye contact and then she smiles and you just feel invited in, but of course you have to start the conversation.



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Farsala said:
curl-6 said:

I have never seen a woman make the first move in my life.

They don't need to, since the societal expectation is on men to do that.  Why put yourself out there and risk rejection when you don't have to?

Define first move.

In middle school I got asked out by a girl by note and we fake dated.

Nowadays girls do the subtle first move of course. For example dancing in a club and you look over at a girl and receive eye contact and then she smiles and you just feel invited in, but of course you have to start the conversation.

First move as in asking someone out, or going over and starting a conversation.



curl-6 said:
Farsala said:

Define first move.

In middle school I got asked out by a girl by note and we fake dated.

Nowadays girls do the subtle first move of course. For example dancing in a club and you look over at a girl and receive eye contact and then she smiles and you just feel invited in, but of course you have to start the conversation.

First move as in asking someone out, or going over and starting a conversation.

Asking someone out is truly a rare thing. But conversation seems to happen all the time, the conversations don't necessarily mean they are looking for a date and have plausible deniability, but a lot of times it does seem like they are screening for it.



curl-6 said:
Cobretti2 said:

Nah, they would rather take the single parent bonuses lol.

On another note, I guess he could become a correctional officer at a women's prison. surely beggars can't be choosers. Would work for him as he has given up

PS - did that girl respond to your facebook messages

Initially yes she did, we spoke back and forth for a few days. Last night I asked her out for coffee. Never heard back, so I guess I blew it.

Don't give up yet may still happen. See how she is towards you at work. Also next time probably easier to ask in a neutral environment like at work so it seems like a lets get coffee whilst we on a break.



 

 

curl-6 said:
Metallox said:
I need to find those mystical women that make the first move, just for curiosity sake because it sounds incredible.

I have never seen a woman make the first move in my life.

They don't need to, since the societal expectation is on men to do that.  Why put yourself out there and risk rejection when you don't have to?

I been approach at crown, but i think some women like married men lol. See the ring and go hunt.



 

 

People that have learning disabilities like me fall behind and never catch up and become isolated from society. Disabled people get labeled: weird, retarded, idiot and other insults that only make us feel more alienated and isolated from society. A disabled person can not relate to normal people and normal people do not understand how hard life is being disabled. I have always been socially isolated and will always be socially isolated from society. Life is hard being an Autistic/Aspie and constantly rejected and made to feel inferior by society.