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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

Go out after 2am will work for guys that have plenty of mates to back them up in fights that often occur late at night. I am in my mid 30s and do not have the energy anymore and never had the confidence. I have never been out after 10pm let alone mid night or 2am. I do not have anyone to back me up in fights at that time of night. Acceptance of reality is better than living a life of denial. Giving up on dating at 16 was the easiest and safest option in my situation to make and I never even bothered trying in my younger days because I did not have anyone to back me up in fights. Other guys have been dealt better cards in life in regards to looks, intelligence, confidence, charm and wealth and have better chances at dating.

 

Why would you get in a fight unless you are looking too? If all the good looking guys can score chicks easily as you claim, they will be long gone before 2am from the place already hooked up. These chick arn't generally for long term relationships, it is to give you confidence in yourself.

The only competition you will have is other guys like you.

Stop repeating the same stuff about looks wealth etc... as I told you before I am ugly, fat, long hair, long beard (cbf shaving), i had no money, met my wife when I had no money in a regular environment in the day time where there is plenty of better competition. I look scary like i'm gonna punch someone, I don't smile yet somehow with all these bad hands i have been dealt I was able to achieve something you think is impossible. Hell she even rejected me a few times, I didn't give up. I made up my mind I wanted her lol.



 

 

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SpokenTruth said:
I'd really like to know what your own standards are. Like you seem hung up on pretty girls as though you yourself would never consider an "ugly" girl.

Your problem is you. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can fix it.

funny, i was looking for an image that has different women from 10 to 1 but can't find one. Was gonna ask if he would date them all if any of them said yes



 

 

For every article you quoted on being ugly

I can find similar on being too beautiful
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/obesely-speaking/201405/11-reasons-being-super-hot-looking-is-problematic



 

 

I do not ask women out ever. If women do not say they are interested, they are not interested. I never said that I only want pretty women. No women are interested in me period! I just do not know how to talk to women. I do not know how to approach, i am that socially inept, i am hopeless. I was aware of my social inadequacies at a young age and i am used to having my mum talk on my behalf and not having to interact with strangers that i do not know. i do not go out to bars/clubs because i do not have people to talk on my behalf and deal with conflict situations if they arose. I could not deal with random interactions with people that I do not not know in an environment that i do not have control over.

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 19 December 2018

OLD YER I KNOW BUT STILL FUNNY



 

 

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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I do not ask women out ever. If women do not say they are interested, they are not interested. I never said that I only want pretty women. No women are interested in me period! I just do not know how to talk to women. I do not know how to approach, i am that socially inept, i am hopeless. I was aware of my social inadequacies at a young age and i am used to having my mum talk on my behalf and not having to interact with strangers that i do not know. i do not go out to bars/clubs because i do not have people to talk on my behalf and deal with conflict situations if they arose. I could not deal with random interactions with people that I do not not know in an environment that i do not have control over.

Talking to women doesn't come easy as there is fear of rejection. Once you accept you will get rejected most the time, its easy. Just need a few to say yes.

Also do you know who this guy is? How would you rate his looks compared to yours? 

 

what If I told you he has had more pussy then all the men combined on this forum.

 

 

 



 

 

^ the great, ron jeremy, is my hero! I am such a loser and mid 30s and never dated there has to be a real problem. i sit at home every night watching TV, chatting online or playing video games. i am not going to change and have accepted my position in life. i have nothing to offer and no need to go out to risk humiliation of rejection and defeat. i am too old now, maybe if i was in my 20s i may have had a better chance but not now! Giving up has always been the easiest route it reduces stress/anxiety. Talking to people that I do not know only adds to my paranoia, increases my stress/anxiety and triggers panic attacks. Social anxiety is not easy to deal with and I have found using avoidance helps cut out stress/anxiety. 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 19 December 2018

I think the reason that many men choose to stay single is because perhaps everything is going well in their life already, and so they want to keep things the way they are. If a woman were to come around, perhaps things could change, but from my personal experience, I tend to stick with what works. In other words, I don't like "change".



Dark_Lord_2008 said:
^ the great, ron jeremy, is my hero! I am such a loser and mid 30s and never dated there has to be a real problem. i sit at home every night watching TV, chatting online or playing video games. i am not going to change and have accepted my position in life. i have nothing to offer and no need to go out to risk humiliation of rejection and defeat. i am too old now, maybe if i was in my 20s i may have had a better chance but not now!

The risk of humiliation is small compared to the opportunity you have to better things for yourself. At least that's what I try to tell myself, although I am generally the same way about things. I would rather avoid encounters altogether even if the odds of humiliation are small.



Dark_Lord_2008 said:

^ the great, ron jeremy, is my hero! I am such a loser and mid 30s and never dated there has to be a real problem. i sit at home every night watching TV, chatting online or playing video games. i am not going to change and have accepted my position in life. i have nothing to offer and no need to go out to risk humiliation of rejection and defeat. i am too old now, maybe if i was in my 20s i may have had a better chance but not now! Giving up has always been the easiest route it reduces stress/anxiety. Talking to people that I do not know only adds to my paranoia, increases my stress/anxiety and triggers panic attacks. Social anxiety is not easy to deal with and I have found using avoidance helps cut out stress/anxiety. 

If you are that worried about failure, get a mail order bride. get a few years out of here at least.