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What turns you off?

Bad Breath 8 29.63%
 
Sweaty hands 0 0%
 
Bad body odor 2 7.41%
 
Small stature 0 0%
 
too much complaining 5 18.52%
 
Golddiggers 3 11.11%
 
awkwardness 1 3.70%
 
Braggers 2 7.41%
 
too much swearing 1 3.70%
 
too much talk no action 5 18.52%
 
Total:27
Snoorlax on 21 October 2018
Metallox said:
Signalstar said:
-People who don't read books.

So 99.99999% of the population? lol

Being too distant/boring, I suppose, but that's that's something I'd try to avoid beforehand, that is, to put attention on a woman with whom I almost sure I could make great chemistry with. Attitude is important as well, a lot of people don't even try to put their best to get to know another individual. It's just, if you're funny, you pass, if not, then screw you. 

lol that's what i was thinking.

Very true! Women don't care if a guy has good intentions, hard working and is just a normal nice guy as long as he tells a bunch of lies and is funny, he'll get laid.  

AngryLittleAlchemist said:
My biggest turn off is people who have standards.

Don't you?

jason1637 said:
If you can't keep a conversation going and half of the date is awkward silence.

As a guy i'll always try to come up with something first expecting her to eventually take the turn but when it doesn't happen it really starts to get old.

Mordred11 said:
Well, one turn off for me which isn't very common among others is when she keeps going on about her family. I'm not much of a family person to begin with, so when she starts talking about her brothers,parents, grandparents, giving me their childhood stories and telling me what they eat for breakfast...Yeah, no. It's also a tricky topic to get out of, since she will feel offended.

I'm okay with her telling me about her family, that way i can prepare myself for whenever i'm supposed to meet them. What i don't like and always try to avoid is getting to know the parents, and other family members when it isn't even sure if our relationship will go anywhere.

ResilientFighter said:
AngryLittleAlchemist said:

Are you talking about girls? Do girls often have bad body odor? 

yes there are stinky girls too its not only dudes lol 
usually its hair or arm pits or even worse dun dun dunnn

Yup i found that out during intercourse with one, it was awfull.

S.Peelman said:
Smoking.

It’s immediately done at that point.

I can deal with it but yeah i really don't like smokers.

KungKras said:
Azuren said:
"She got kids"

How dare she reproduce before meeting you?

If I don't have kids and she does, then she's at a totally different stage in life than me and that's a dealbreaker.

I'll date women with kids If I have kids of my own.

Exactly. I probably wouldn't mind if i already had a kid of my own because then we could share our experiences as parents and not her trying to lecture me how i dont know what it's like to be a parent.



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Dark_Lord_2008 on 21 October 2018

You have good fashion/style, you eat right and you lift. However they are not attracted to you or you are not attracted to them. Within a second  of meeting them you can tell if there is attraction or not.

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TruckOSaurus on 21 October 2018

A vagina



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jason1637 on 21 October 2018

Also if they're not American. I only date people with the same nationality as me.



vivster on 22 October 2018

When she doesn't appreciate my Fedora.



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LipeJJ on 22 October 2018
TruckOSaurus said:
A vagina

Wonderful, post of the year right there!

jason1637 said:
Also if they're not American. I only date people with the same nationality as me.

Why is that? I'm genuinely curious. :o



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Pemalite on 22 October 2018

My biggest turn offs are:
* Bad Hygiene.
* Unfit/Overweight.
* No motivation.
* Smoking.

I work hard and put health first, I expect someone to have similar interests and the drive to work equally as hard. - Being a Gym junkie like me would be a bonus too.

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S.Peelman on 22 October 2018
Snoorlax said:
S.Peelman said:
Smoking.

It’s immediately done at that point.

I can deal with it but yeah i really don't like smokers.

It’s just that there’s been too many people that have had too many problems solely because of smoking (one worse than the other) in my already tiny family, so I hate it with a passion. I just don’t want to deal with that with a partner. It’s a ticking timebomb and asking for all kinds of health problems.

And that’s even ignoring that literally everything gets absolutely filthy because of it.



jason1637 on 22 October 2018
LipeJJ said:
TruckOSaurus said:
A vagina

Wonderful, post of the year right there!

jason1637 said:
Also if they're not American. I only date people with the same nationality as me.

Why is that? I'm genuinely curious. :o

The last month and a half I've spent in college and I've been exposed to lots of international students and they're culture just doesn't feel the same like American culture which is what I'm used to.



Snoorlax on 22 October 2018
LittleSnake said:
Azuren said:
"She got kids"

How dare she reproduce before meeting you?

There's nothing wrong with someone not wanting to date someone who has kids 

You've just earned another thumbsup.

Slade6alpha said:

Smoking/heavy drug use
Bad manners
Has kids
Stinks
Racist
Trump supporter

Edit: Face tatoos 

lol

VAMatt said:
Snoorlax said:

Yeah it's even worse when that friend is a cockblocker.

Is there any other reason that she would bring a friend?  I always figured they were there to cock block. 

Apparentely there are some grownass women that are too shy or scared to be alone with a guy on a date so they invite their best friend just to make her feel comfortable or share her thoughts about the dude which usually ends up being cockblocking.

Snoopy said:
Azuren said:

As a divorced father who has actually gone through the system and seen how it works:

 

Stick to topics you actually know about. You don't pay child support because kids think you're the dad. If you're not on the birth certificate and haven't gone through the trouble of legally adopting the child, you're not paying child support.

Here are multiple cases and discussions on both kids viewing you as the father or the single mother listing your name on social benefits.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UH9fnRnEcr0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMxaZkDUfrE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lj7L1G9_GPQ

https://family-law.freeadvice.com/family-law/child_support/Child-Support-for-a-Child-That-Is-Not-Mine.htm (child by consent section)

"Laws favor someone being named the father because they do not want a child going through life fatherless. The equitable doctrine of estoppel applies to persons who have for all practical purposes consented to being dad, regardless of paternity. The basic theory is that since you acted like a parent and permitted the child to believe you were their father, the child now has a right to rely on your representation that you are their father. "

Here you go, bucko. The moral of the story? Stay away from single mothers.

Whether you pay child support by law or out of cuckness, single moms will eventually expect you to provide for both her and her child sooner rather than later. So yeah single moms are a no go.

Rob5VGC said:
1. I don't do MILF's. I look at them, but that's it.

Tattoo's... or at least have a small one that looks nice.
Smoking. She's going to have that smoking granny voice when she gets old.

Some other stuff.

I like MILFs for hookups nothing serious.