I have to say, I was expecting almost every post in this thread to be this exact reply here but find people actually siding with the OP that girls are the enemy when it comes to dating, it's insane to me that anyone can go to their 30s and not understand some of the basic fundamentals of .... human life which our ancestors have managed to work out ever since we could swing a rock at a wild boar and present it to a girl in a nice cave that we wanted to rock her stone age world.

 - Girls want to date just as much as guys do.

 - Girls make up slightly larger than 50% of the population as such there are more of them on the lookout for a male partner, as there have been studies showing there to be a larger % of homosexual males to female this also means there are more guys having sex with guys to take the numbers advantage even more to your side as a guy, statistically this logic of "80% of people on dating sites are guys doesn't really hold up"

 - There are girls out there who are just as hopeless as even the most beta of beta males out there when it comes to dating, out of 7billion humans the chances that you are in the bottom 10% is highly unlikely unless you are 70+ years old, missing limbs, severely disabled or a fan of Pogs/ALF.

- Girls like/want sex just as much as guys, they don't do it to appease guys, they love it just as much as if not more than us.

But aye, the levels of confidence shown from the OP's post and his follow up message is less than zero, he has defeated himself in a game before he has even stepped foot on the playing field, very few people are going to find the "I'm a loser" trait to be attractive outside of in a movie... Like "Loser" featuring the Teenage dirtbag song and that guy from American pie who fucked the pie.... good movie, bad premise for real life.

Only real tips I think the OP should take towards dating is

 - Stop thinking of girls as the enemy....

or....

 - Accept that you've issues with girls and seek out something else... something with a penis.

I may have missed it, but I haven't seen anyone in this thread except the OP agree with his notion that women are these evil, conniving creatures.

I was picked last at gym class and that was my trigger. i could not accept that loss. I refused to talk to anyone and hanged out at library and pursued solo activities like video games, cycling and running, where there is no need to be a team member.

http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8900597

http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8900730

http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8900755

http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8900764

Some of these feature some nice backhanded compliments though such as "obviously they're not all whores" but still end the paragraph with "But being real lot's of women online are only looking for money and attention not much else because when it comes down to purely dating, most women don't have a clue of what they want or what they're looking for in guys."

If the above posts do not appear to be in any way bad to you that's fine, this is just my opinion but some of these digs and generalizations of girls are just based on some bad experiences in my opinion and most certainly not the norm. I think if you have a bad experience and get knocked on the ground... sit there a minute, think about it, then get back up, dust yourself off and move on, no point dwelling on the past and letting it mar your views on others for the future, when you get fucked by an Ex there is only one person in the world who did that to you and you need to avoid ... the Ex, every other girl isn't responsible for their actions.

and now you're in your mid 30s, all those people who went off and did sports as a career are now retiring from those jobs and looking at reskilling into other area's which you likely got your foothold in as a first job when you were in your late teens, you're now effectively 15 years ahead of them on the job/home ladder providing you didn't just stay sat in the library looking out the window lamenting that first time you were turned down by a team of boys a team.

If you are still holding onto that first loss of being picked last on a team 20 years later though... I mean.... you were still picked on the team, you have to accept there is always a person who comes in last place, do you think that person should just end their life each time until only one remains? Highlander rules style? if you are still having hang ups about such a thing where it's effecting your life 20 years I would hope you have considered talking to someone about it, and I don't mean online, I mean professional help, because that isn't healthy.

No, I just have the memory of a concussed goldfish and legitimately forgot about those posts, my bad.

While I do agree that a misogynistic attitude generally won't help your dating prospects, I do think it's a bit inaccurate to take real life gender ratios and apply them to online dating apps; for example, Tinder has roughly twice as many male users as female ones:

https://www.statista.com/statistics/607430/tinder-gender-distribution-usa/

https://www.statista.com/statistics/814691/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-tinder-by-gender/

Also, given there are roughly 3.7 billion men in the world, that means that there are 370 million in the bottom 10%, that's more than the population of USA, or nearly 3 times the global number of natural redheads, so not exactly rare.

I actually laughed out loud reading that :D No worries though, look I know as well that some of those posts I quoted are from people from different backgrounds and different countries/religions etc to me, that's why I've being very clear than I don't think that those views are wrong to have just they are very different to what I believe and live by, I don't want to be starting fights regarding them is all.

Numbers game though! of that 370million Men how many of those are in the 20-30s age bracket, I really doubt the OP is losing out on a hot date night to a 3month old male baby or an incontinent 90 year old (although some people are into that! the McAfee documentary on Netflix is amazing! just saying) you also have to factor in things like that study on males who've had a homosexual experience which I read as being around 30% or there abouts, that said I'd fall into that category too but that doesn't take me outta the pool of guys after girls (when I am single that is) as I've been described as a trisexual.... I'll try anything ! I'm just saying there is likely far greater than 10% of males on this planet which you would be above by sheer default of children, tons more with elderly men (less if you factor in guys like Hefner) more again when you factor out gay people. but of course some of those same factors impact both pools equally.... actually I guess there would be more older women than men since they live longer than us... still though, for every granny there's a potential courting Rooney out there.

Edit - Know that last paragraph turns around a bit in it, I'm a touch tired and just typing aloud, if that makes sense, could be that some sites like tinder which are more based on finding a fuck buddy for the night are more male orientated and sites which are more... romance based might be where ladies tend to chill out? I'm not sure, I've used Plenty of Fish and Facebook myself when it comes to encountering people for fun and frolics... and WoW! Never knock a nerd!