lf the argument is about “feelings of safety” rather than “actual risk”, then wouldn’t that mean that there is a “fear of rape” culture rather than an actual rape culture?

Thats fine. But when the woman chooses to have a man support her and her baby, then I believe a man needs to have some power.  If the choice of the woman does not impact anyone else but herself, then yes, nobody can stop her.

that's the main point here, in the same way he has no right to impose his will on her body, I do believe the same thing should happen to the man's defense. if he has no intention of having a child and informs the woman of this fact, by deciding to keep the child it means she's assuming 100% rights and responsibility over said child. 

I know that the laws in most countries tend to be extremely biased against men in these matters and that's something I'd love to see the sjw types fighting on behalf of true equality. 

well look at that we actually agree 100% just some miscommunication at the beginning.  I wish SJW's see that it might look like 2 groups dont agree but by actually talking things can be resolved and screeching and whinnying wont do much. 

sure, it's just about keeping things rational and leaving emotions out of it. more people would find common ground if they engaged in a conversation with this approach

Thank god I keped my cool, I was about to accuse you of rape if you disagree with me one more time. 

I don't agree the Aziz Ansari thing was just a bad date. Assuming what the girl said was true and Aziz didn't seem to deny what she said, it did come off kinda rapey. I mean she kept pulling away, while she didn't leave, it sounds like he kept being sexually aggressive. If a girl give an indication she doesn't want sex, but doesn't leave, I recommend not continuing to push sex. Either just hangout or tell her to leave, either would be better than what Aziz allegedly did. Its just funny this happened to Aziz given he acts like he understands and respects women, then jams his finger down her throat and keeps trying to fuck. A bad date is when there is lack of chemistry or a connection, being sexually aggressive is different category.

I don't even like typing out the word r-a-p-e; it's such a disgusting word. Although I'd be willing to bet that people do tend to exaggerate their claims when it comes to it. When I hear the word, I picture a stranger chasing down a girl and performing the act while she kicks and screams. In reality, I would think most cases are with close friends and the victim may not have even deemed it r-a-p-e at the time it happened. Maybe the girl was slightly resistance but still followed through, and then in the aftermath she realized that she made a mistake and then blows everything out of proportion (no pun intended). (Too soon?)

And I claim bullshit on that. Or because you might know one you project we must all know one? I know the left does this a lot. Wich is why a lot of prominent male feminist are having many sexual asault cases being brought up.

How about my case, I dont know a single women who has been asaulted, but I know men who have been false acused. But you dont see me  claiming theres an epidemic or a false acusation culture. So why dont you present some Mighty evidence with your insane assumption.  Because we have police reports that say you are wrong.

DId you read that article, or you expected nobody to read that shot article?

At no point was that guy raped. They said they were teasing him with rape. blindfolding freshmen and pranking them and shit like that has been done forever in college. At no point am I saying thats ok But dont exaggerate cuz you will be found out and then people will dismis the entire thing cuz you blew it out of proportion. Like you not mentioning they each payed $50k bail and where all charge with hazing, not rape. even by the same testimony the victim made it sounded like a stupid prank.